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I love getting dp!

  • please mark your post as NSFW.

  • please mark your post as NSFW.

  • rawr

  • please mark your post as nsfw and pm me.

  • Thank you 🫡

  • I would like to clean up the old comments and give a summary here.

    Donations via Open Collective

    Unfortunately, we cannot use Open Collective because there is no fiscal host that accepts NSFW instances.

    Donations via Liberapay or Patreon

    Similar scenario to Open Collective. Payment processors (PayPal and Stripe) can ban adult sites at any time.

    Donations with alt coins

    It is complicated to support so many different coins. Therefore, we only support ETH, XMR as the main ones. You can still donate with dozens of different coins via Trocador. All donations you make there will be merged into our XMR wallet.

    Instance size

    As of April 10th 25, we have 54.3GB of database and 1.48TB of media storage.

    Should I host my media somewhere else to reduce costs?

    No you don't need to. The media cost is not as high as one might think. At least it is at a level that we can sustain as long as we can receive donations.

    Distributed setup (Kubernetes)

    Although I believe it will increase performance and reliability, I don't think horizontal scaling (with multiple servers) makes sense for an instance that receives very few donations relative to the number of users. Therefore, I personally prefer vertical scaling for now.

    Server location

    We currently host the instance in the Netherlands (at least part of it).

  • Naughty girl 🥵

  • lol

  • Finally, after 11 days, it's fixed :)

  • It's for privacy reasons. Remote servers shouldn't be able to see Lemmy NSFW users IP addresses. But I will add some exceptions for some providers like imgur, catbox etc.

  • Sorry for the hassle. I'll be a little more careful next time.

  • It's default Lemmy UI right? Can you try other UIs like Tesseract?

  • You're welcome 🙏 Can you please update your posts as NSFW?

  • Yeah. The automod we were using filled all the disk. I fixed things and took the opportunity to updating the instance to 0.19.11. This version was supposed to automatically flag posts shared in NSFW communities as NSFW, but it did not. I know, it's annoying.

    Update: fixed (again).

  • Ok I understood now. It must be about new updates. I’ll check what I can do.

  • I don't think I fully understand what you are saying. What was supposed to happen and what actually happened? In which instance are you experiencing the issue?

  • An unexpected side effect. I'll fix it right away.

  • see: https://lemmynsfw.com/post/23117990/10860873

    I'll try to fix it once everything is back on track.

  • It works on default Lemmy UI. What client are you using?

  • Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    FIXED AGAIN

    Posts are not auto flagged as NSFW

    Since I haven't patched the newly updated version yet, it won't be automatically marked as NSFW. Please manually mark your posts as NSFW for now until this post disappears.


    Update: you can safely ignore NSFW button now. All posts are NSFW flagged by default.

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    COMPLETED

    Update Lemmy NSFW to Lemmy 0.19.9 version

    I haven't updated it for months, thinking it would make sense to follow Lemmy.world's update cycle, but they haven’t updated for so long and we're running into federation issues. So I'll be updating to the latest Lemmy version (0.19.9).

    I believe the update process will take about 1-2 hours.

    Also, what do you think about Lemmy NSFW's speed/performance? You can express your opinion in the comments or with the poll. We can make improvements if necessary.

    Poll: https://strawpoll.com/e7ZJaLlmLg3


    Update: Done. Please comment here if you encounter any issues. Email issues are fixed too.

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    50k users 🎉

    yay 🍻

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    Server migration at UTC 12:00 (est. 1 hour downtime)

    Mod Coordination @lemmynsfw.com
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    Upgraded media server (and what you should know)

    I finally found time for this. Here are some changes:

    • Image, gif and video extensions will no longer be changed, they will remain as they are.
    • File quality will not be reduced, they will remain at max quality.
    • Added support for types such as APNG, JPEG-XL.
    • Animation types will not be converted to video.
    • The file size limit remains at 20mb. If I can somehow solve the donation issue, I would like to increase this limit in the future.

    Thanks to @asonix for making the above and many more improvements.

    Please let me know if you encounter any errors. I need to tweak the configurations a bit more I guess.

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    Some updates about Lemmy NSFW

    There are issues that have been on my mind for a few days, and I wanted to talk about them with you.

    Downvotes

    As you may notice, downvotes have been completely off for the last few days. I did this because I couldn't resist the pressure of some friends :/ I still don't know what to do about this. The majority of members probably want it to be completely open. As mods, posters and admins; some think it should be closed, some think it should be restricted (I guess).

    I guess there is no solution that makes everyone happy. I realized I don't have admin skills in stressful situations, I'm a fucking stupid lol :D I miss @gabe so much.

    lemmyposter212 suggested "fuzzy votes" or something that can work for us too. I think I'll just ghost this issue for a while.

    Donations

    As you know, all our donation accounts have been closed. Since it was my first time opening a site in the NSFW area, I had no experience. I reviewed some adult donation sites

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    Allowing downvotes only to community members

    In our previous announcement, we announced that we closed downvotes.

    Some people found it right, some people hated it, some people hesitated. At the end of the day, since we are on a disorganised platform like fediverse, I find the decision we took right. However, I was also annoyed by the lack of downvotes. So I searched for a solution.

    I think the planned post flair support will be a good improvement in this regard. But it seems to take a long time to develop.

    What do you think about limiting downvotes to only members of that community? I see it as the optimal way in the current situation.

    Please vote with empathy, not just as a user, but assuming you are a poster user. Is it right decision?

    Poll: https://strawpoll.com/DwyoDBooDnA

    Result: done.

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    Upgraded to Lemmy 0.19 Beta

    Quick notes;

    • Clients may not work with the beta version for now. Please log out and log in back again to test it. Please request support from client devs.
    • Blur NSFW and auto expand features are part of official Lemmy now, you can find these on profile settings.
    • Beta version has some bugs, please report them on the repo.
    • You can now block instances with this version
    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    Server migration

    Update: if you're seeing this text, then we've completed the migration :) 🎉

    TL;DR: We are downgrading the server.

    Currently, the instance has a monthly cost of approximately $200, and we can barely cover this expense with donations. But more importantly, we think that the current server specs are too much for the needs.

    We are the 3rd instance with the most users and one of the most stable instances with 99.55% uptime, but still more than half of the server components are not used.

    Therefore, we will slowly downgrade the server to use donations more optimally. By the way, thank you to everyone who supporting us 🙏

    • Old specs: 16 core, 48 ram for 160$
    • New specs: 12 core, 32 ram for 125$

    The migration will start in 12PM UTC, you can check from your own timezone from here: https://notime.zone/NdyvH8JtJkJmZ

    Instance will be available with a few downtimes, but posts/comments after 12PM will be deleted. Please follow this post...

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    Voyager app, post listing settings, donation status

    I haven't been able to fix these sooner as I've been busy the last few days. I got it now.

    The Voyager app (voyager.lemmynsfw.com) on the instance works as expected and updates automatically now.

    Post listing settings (blur nsfw/auto expand images) are back again. I will not update Lemmy version before I patch new version so it will not be unpleasant as before.

    Also we're having trouble with the donation platforms. We may be making a change soon. Friends who have donated from sites such as Github Sponsors and Patreon before, what do you think about making donations from sites such as fanbox.cc or subscribestar.adult?

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    Migrating media server

    I was waiting for new versions, but the disk filled up faster than I expected. I'm moving 400GB image archive from local disk to object-storage. Unfortunately the process is very slow. It will take several hours.

    Update: Migration finished 🎉

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    Server migration (finished)

    An ex-admin to whom we have given access to the server, has reported us to the server provider. Also we were already planning to migrate somewhere else. So right now we're moving to a more secure server.

    I'll try to make a smooth transition. Any interaction (post, comment, like etc.) after 11AM (CET) will be deleted, but the site will not be down during migration. It will be an estimated 1 hour process.

    Update: its done. Hopefully without problems. If you see this, you are on the new server.

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    i'm out (edit: I can’t)

    Update: I contacted with current big owners, other older friends and lastly from some friends from here. Mostly all of them living in US so they don’t want/can’t host it. So I’ll keep hosting without being on moderation side. @gavi@lemmynsfw.com will post about details I guess. @gavi@lemmynsfw.com is the new top admin.

    As you know, it has been 2 weeks since I opened the instance and it has grown quite a lot. Likewise, the time I have to devote to this work has increased a lot.

    I'm dealing with lemmynsfw more than my IRL job right now :D This is bothering me. Also, having an NSFW instance instead of a normal instance makes things much more difficult. If you remember; I had my biggest scale fuck up with the post "we allow loli content" :) This situation wore me out. Also a lot of problems are bothering me, both as a software and as a community.

    That's why I'm thinking of transferring the instance and the domain to a perso

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    Donations and financial status

    We are currently the 3rd largest Lemmy instance in terms of monthly active users. This brings a financial burden and we would appreciate your help about it.

    I only pin this post when we drop below $200. I know it's annoying when the donation post is always at the top.

    If you want to donate, here's donation platforms we use:

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    POLL: Should we allow content migration bots?

    Bots of this type have appeared recently, and people are asking if it's okay to use them. I'm not sure about this either, so I think it would make sense to ask users.

    These bots follow some subreddits on Reddit and automatically post it to Lemmy when a post is created there.

    I've seen an example site for it: lemmit.online. This instance is dedicated solely to mirroring Reddit posts to the Lemmy instance.

    Maybe instead of mirroring to a community on Lemmy NSFW, we can subscribe to lemmit.online via Lemmy NSFW. This way we could have kept Lemmy NSFW free of bots. Currently, even if accepted, I believe it should be done under admin control to prevent duplicates.

    Here is the poll: https://strawpoll.com/polls/PbZqRw82byN

    I'm open to suggestions.

    Mod Coordination @lemmynsfw.com
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    Unmoderated Communities

    cross-posted from: https://lemmynsfw.com/post/61685

    If a moderator is not active or banned, you can request to be a mod for that community. Just check community rules before posting.

    https://lemmynsfw.com/c/community_requests

    I decided not to remove the old mod. What do you think about it? I believe I shouldn't do this, but I would still like to hear your opinion. Is it unfair to remove that mod if inactive for a week?

    Also; @Solaire@lemmynsfw.com is banned and s/he has so many communities. I can appoint if there are some volunteers.

    note: bottomless and lesbians communities are reserved for now.

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    Unmoderated Communities

    If a moderator is not active or banned, you can request to be a mod for that community. Just check community rules before posting.

    https://lemmynsfw.com/c/community_requests

    I decided not to remove the old mod. What do you think about it? I believe I shouldn't do this, but I would still like to hear your opinion. Is it unfair to remove that mod if inactive for a week?

    Also; @Solaire@lemmynsfw.com is banned and s/he has so many communities. I can appoint if there are some volunteers.

    note: bottomless and lesbians communities are reserved for now.

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    New rules about NSFW posts, icons and avatars

    We don't want to overmoderate, but we have to add some rules for ease of moderation and cooperation with other instances in the federation.

    • 1. Non-flagged NSFW posts: Although we already had a rule about it, we were applying it a little more flexibly. From now on, posts that are not properly flagged as NSFW will be deleted without notice.
    • 2. NSFW community icons: As NSFW status can be added to communities, we think that hiding/blurring community icons is the responsibility of clients like Mlem, Jerboa or Lemmy-UI. That's why NSFW community icons are allowed.
    • 3. NSFW user avatars: Unlike community icons, users do not have an NSFW status. For this reason, NSFW user icons are banned. This rule may change as a result of improvements in Lemmy.

    In order to apply the 3rd rule, the user will be informed first. Any post or comment made afterward may result in a ban due to non-compliance with the rule.

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    Lemmy NSFW is back

    I'm not sure how long it took, but for a while the instance had crashed. For some reason the Lemmy photo upload service took up 150GB of free space and hence the server crashed because of it. I'm not sure about the possibility of recurrence as I don't know the exact reason.

    For this reason, you can follow our Mastodon account, which I have just opened, to follow or report possible crashes.

    https://mastodon.world/@lemmynsfw

    Lemmy NSFW @lemmynsfw.com
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    New Post View Settings

    You can now turn on/off the following options:
    • Blur NSFW images
    • Blur NSFW community avatars (in list)
    • Auto expand images

    You can find it in the "Local Settings" section in the settings. If you are on mobile, you have to scroll down from the settings block. Also you may need to clear caches.

    Note:

    These options are kept on the device and are not synchronized between devices.