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Vanth

@ Vanth @reddthat.com

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  • How did you guys celebrate Christmas this year?

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  • Yo, want to swap YouTube recs for shits and giggles? I've got one new one from a sibling I'm particularly keen to explore.

    NightHawkinLight - really down-to-earth guy who finds ways to make more complicated chemical projects from home with easy to source ingredients. His latest videos are about DIY aircrete that might work in some projects I've been mulling.

    And I recommended Bobby Fingers, an Irish guy who makes dioramas. The topics he picks for his dioramas are hilarious. He made one of Fabio getting smacked in the face by a bird while riding a rollercoaster. His clay modeling skills are also amazing.

  • How did you guys celebrate Christmas this year?

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  • Chipping away at the largest cheese ball I have ever seen. My mom made it. I don't know why. She's never once made a holiday cheese ball before, but doggonit, if she's going to do it she'll go all out.

    Other than that, toodling around in my dad's garage/workshop using some tools I don't have myself at home. Probably play some board games later. Eat lots of food. Swap YouTube recommendations for makers/DIY type channels.

  • Who is an artist or public figure you still enjoy despite them being cancelled for bad behaviour?

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  • I like the world building in Fifth Element and Valerian and the City of a Thousand Planets. But Luc Besson is probably a rapist and certainly a sexual assaulter. I'll watch his old stuff I already own but won't put any more money towards it nor support any new projects.

    Edit: oh, also he's not "cancelled". He came out with another movie this year or last, if I recall. 9 times our of 10, celebrities that say they were "cancelled" just had their feefees hurt by people on social media.

  • How's your Christmas going?

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  • Drive to the folks was ok. Tensions were minimal and then ramped up when newly deconstructing brother made a very tame joke about the pope. I though it was funny, he just said the pope should bless little bottles of Malort instead of holy water. The parents were not amused.

    I slept in the guest room below the kitchen. Their fridge is old and the compressor has started to howl. It sounds like car horns blasting in the distance. I did not sleep well and I'm going to need a lot of emotional control today.

  • Movie Marketing Used to Be Fun. Now It’s Just Inescapable. — Ads are everywhere, and yet fewer viewers are aware of what’s coming out when.

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  • Can't read the article without giving them my email address so they can send me spam.

    Maybe no one knows what movies are coming out because the high-quality information is behind paywalls and the low-quality information is either blocked or ignored due to volume.

    If they want me to know about their movies, they'll run informative, on-topic ads without tucking them behind a paywall and without drowning them out in a sea of other less-relevent ads.

  • Amazon Workers at DJT6 Facility in Riverside Join Teamsters

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  • “It is a crime that Amazon makes billions off their backs while they can’t even afford to buy a home near the warehouse.”

    Randy Korgan, Director of the Teamsters Amazon Division and Secretary-Treasurer of Local 1932.

    Can confirm, I considered an engineering job in Riverside in ~2018. The salary offered to me as an early-to-mid career engineer was barely enough for the cheapest 1 bedroom apartment I could find. When I asked for a salary study, I was told "people make sacrifices" to work in CA and that I could find something cheaper by renting a room under the table or by commuting an hour-plus. If they would do that to a "white-collar" professional, imagine the coercion towards an hourly laborer consider low or "no" skilled.

    Good luck, folks working at DJT6. I'll be cheering for you.

  • Weekly thread - What movies have you watched this week? 24/12/2025

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  • Avatar 3. Graphics were not improved enough over 2 to warrant watching it for that reason. Narratively, a repeat of 2 and about an hour too long in runtime.

    Silent Night, Deadly Night 1 & 2 in prep for the remake. I had forgotten the origin of "Garbage Day!" and was delighted to rediscover it.

  • Why does Lemmy feel ephemeral?

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  • I would use reddit for crowd-sourced hobby advice. If someone gave bad advice, most subs had plenty of other members who would quickly correct them and explain or even provide sources.

    Outside of Linux and a few other techy things, Lemmy doesn't have enough members experienced in hobbies that interest me to be able to rely on the community correcting itself.

    So I often see, eg, Bob from ABC community says something, but it sounds a little off to me. I don't know enough to say if Bob is right or wrong, and no one is chiming in with better advice. So it's a mostly worthless interaction.

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    What does the confederate flag mean to you?

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  • That's really cute and so sweet of your friend. Entirely different if someone is surprising you with a cake based on something you're interested in.

    Now I'm wondering how I would react if a friend gave me a CSA themed cake. "Here, Vanth, I know how much you like being a racist piece of shit." I would be wondering how I got my friendship so, so wrong.

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    What does the confederate flag mean to you?

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  • Is your brother an adult? No excuses based on age, I'm just trying to fathom motivations.

    Like, I can be passionate about my hobbies. I homebrew beer a lot but slapping beer on a cake would feel so childish. I follow the Scottish national rugby team, and would feel lame af putting their logo on my birthday cake, doubly so since I'm not Scottish and don't live in Scotland. I dabble in Linux but would die of cringe if I made a cake with some distro logo on it. I have some thoughts on political systems but it wouldn't even occur to me to put their symbols on my birthday cake. I also simply wouldn't want to make my birthday all about one niche interest.

    Out of all the passions and interests your brother has, he 1) decided the CSA flag is the one he most wants to elevate and 2) he wants so much to express his interest publicly, he would use his once-per-year special day to do it.

    Yeah, I'd skip the brother's birthday. I'm an adult and I get to pick my family and friends now. And I'm not picking blood relatives that bog me down with their hateful baggage.

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  • Ask them why they stay married then. I have a lot of male colleagues who partake in "boomer humor" about how much they hate their wives. But they shut up real quick when I remind them no-fault divorce exists in our country (for now). I think they just like to whine and complain because admitting they have any sort of emotion other than anger is something they look down on.

  • Does anyone actually like... talk to extended family/relatives? Like an active effort to maintain relations and not just because of forced family gatherings?

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  • Yeah, the ones I have a connection with.

    Aunt because we talk plants. She's hella good at hoyas and I've learned a lot from her.

    Cousin because she ended up in a similar career field and we swap stories. Also some similar hobby interests.

    Another cousin who has similar interests when it comes to politics and volunteer work.

  • What's a time you stuck to your principles despite it being inconvenient to you?

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  • Dude, the church my family followed was similar. I was asked to sign a document pledging I would do all sorts of things, like raise the kid in the religion if their parents died, also to live a "moral sex life" and resist the evils of gay culture and drugs. I didn't sign and saw it as an act of honesty and respect to explain I couldn't fulfill their request.

    If you think so little of other people's religious beliefs that you would lie to become a godparent, you do you.

  • ‘Avatar: Fire And Ash’ Sparking To $340M-$350M Global Opening – International Box Office

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  • This is me, I went along when invited by friends to see the graphics.

    This one wasn't worth it, there's been no advancement since 2. And since most of the filming has been done for 4 and 5 already, I'm not expecting them to show any technology growth either.

    I saw it in a Dolby theater rather than IMAX. I don't think IMAX would have made enough difference to change my mind.

  • After watching the latest Veritasium video: why is the spin of a proton/electron decided at measurement, why not at creation?

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  • Also not how biological sex works either. The sperm carries both X and Y, contributing only one at time of fertilization (except for the rare chromosomal variation).

    Also, not at all related to spin of an electron. Not everything is impossible to observe state and location at the same time. I, for example, am currently observable on my couch with minimal motion in any direction.

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    Women of Ask Lemmy, what are your thoughts on this phrase, "if the bra and panties match, you weren't the one who decided to have sex tonight."

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  • Not sure the saying actually comes from a rom-com, but I sure could see it. Dumb. Can't even wear a set of goddamn underwear without someone overanalyzing it.

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    Anyone here suffering from vilolent and homicidal tendencies? how do you suppress these?

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    Is President Trump a real life version of Frank Fontaine from BioShock?

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  • What X-mas themed things do people who hate X‐mas like?

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  • I don't like sugary sweet Christmas movies but dig a good Christmas themed black comedy horror/slasher.

    Jack Frost (1997) > Jack Frost (1998)

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    Do you recommend the student exchanges at your school? By the way, what country did you guys have?

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  • I plan on telling her parents and surprising her by having them sign her up for the trip.

    If she wants to go to Germany, she can talk to her own parents. I can't imagine any good reason for you to get involved and talk to her parents without her knowing. Maybe I'm missing some context, but seems like a lot of not-your-business.