Update on this, I got the curved metal toy, it is def a new favorite! I'm still getting used to it but it def makes me weak in the knees hehe. It's also surprisingly comfortable for keeping in for awhile!
Chastity is a journey, hypno could help you enjoy the experience, and so can the right cage and prep.
The first cage I got was on of those super adjustable ones with all the spacers and stuff, and it was SO hard to put on and even harder to keep everything from pinching me and pulling my hair. I recommend shaving and getting a simple, slightly bigger than you think you need cage, and a chastity cage strap, people really underestimate how much a strap can make things more secure and comfortable.
I also really like cages that expose a lot of my head so that I can rub it like a real clit when I'm horny, if everything is covered, I enjoy being caged much less, plus its harder to adjust things if something gets misaligned or is pinching
I made this post about some tips for chastity awhile back, I hope this is helpful!
I've been reallllly loving this one toy from an Amazon shop it's a knockoff bad dragon or similar toy (dw it's silicone) I have large and xlarge versions. It rubs my prostate sooo good, absolutely brain melting 🤤
Now I just need to find the real version with the fuck machine attachment slot, no luck yet though
I've been interested in trying to find that curved metal pspot massager that seems really popular, I'd love to find out what the hype is all about hehe
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