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  • I once sat next to a couple on the plane and the young woman was showing her bf a video of Tate talking about how men should be stoic and never complain because no one wants to hear that pussy bullshit. She was saying things to him like “You know how you freak out and bitch at me? You should be like him.”

    So yeah… there are women out there who like him. They like hardcore traditional gender roles, is probably the base of it, and want a man doing cliche man shit like Tate preaches. Some women are dealt a great hand by traditional standards: big tits, blond hair, nice face, and they would rather settle into being provided for than fuss with all that feminism stuff. It’s idiotic but people believe whatever’s in their interests. And surprise surprise, these women don’t want men to have emotional needs.

  • In the old days when you disappeared into a cult, you physically went to live with them and everything.

    These days it’s “cult to go.” Good luck intervening and cutting off their link to the cult when the cult is speaking to them from their pocket.

  • The biggest problem I see is that people don’t always understand others’ jobs and how to judge if they are doing them well. I know this will be unpopular but managers are the key example here. Everyone thinks they know who the good and bad managers are but until you’ve been one, you dont understand their job to truly know more than who you like and who you don’t like. That’s no way to decide anyone’s pay.

  • This kind of headline always makes it sound like AI is being used as judge, jury, and executioner. But it’s more likely that it’s part of narrowing the field or generating candidates.

    I’m reminded of another headline recently about how AI is now going to be used at a nuclear reactor. Everyone assumed this meant that ChatGPT would henceforth operate the entire reactor including having the ability to cause meltdowns. It turned out to be that the employees were getting an AI powered document search for their office that would help them search regulatory and technical documents.

    We need to remain skeptical of AI, but this hardon for Skynet everywhere is not actually helping with that. That’s more emotional catharsis, 2-minutes hate, than effective skepticism.

  • We see a lot of similar headlines from anthropology. One artifact overthrows the entire known timeline. I’m far from educated on these topics and maybe the articles are just sensationalizing it all, but these always rub me the wrong way. It seems like a very tiny number of data points to work with and whole fields of understanding flipping around a lot. Is this the best we can do?

  • No one cares when you bought. You’re supposed to flood the used Tesla market to suppress new sales happening NOW.

    I’ve heard a lot of excuses from Tesla drivers about how they can’t afford to stand for their ethics. It’s pathetic. How are we to believe this from anyone who could afford one in the first place?

    Plot yourself on the historical spectrum of “what was I willing to give up for my ideals” and that brave moral stand about not having a car payment looks pretty fucking limp.

    I have empathy for you. I’m just more concerns with your soul than your car payment.

  • They will definitely not appoint an even more progressive pope after him. He was “the progressive pope” for a time and now they will shift gears in the other direction for a time. The Catholic Church is not on some steady progressive march. Especially the way politics are going around the world, you can expect a very anti-woke pope next.

  • I’m finally reading The Expanse books and in the opening pages of the first book there’s a joke about how a freshly implanted prosthetic arm doesn’t quite feel like yours until you get used to it, and in that interim you can jerk off and it will feel like a hand job. And the book goes from there.

  • If they also consume it over the border, sure.

    If they bring it back, they are importing it and that’s when you have to pay the tariff. If you’re thinking “just keep it in your trunk how will anyone know?” just consider how long smuggling has been a thing and ask yourself if you think border guards have thought of this. They have.

  • Social media is definitely a big thing, even if it’s not the only thing.

    I believe it has two parts. The technology can personalize content and optimize for engagement, so it’s more addicting than traditional media could ever be.

    And the jackasses making content have no accountability or editorial standards whatsoever. They churn out whatever clicks and they’re willing to lie, incite, and gaslight their way through it.

    Combine the low content standards with the high addiction factor and you have a ticking time bomb. Or maybe it already went off and we’re just looking around at the crater left behind.

  • It’s very hard to actually get a company broken up and I can’t remember ever seeing it happen. But when your antitrust case is judged against you, they don’t just charge you a fine and say “on your way now.”

  • Mildly Infuriating @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    Sam Bankman-Fried is angling for a pardon from Trump

    It would disgust decent people everywhere if SBF got a pardon. So I'd say he has a shot! The only question is: what can he offer Trump? Advice on crypto scams, perhaps?

    No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    Why do quantum computers look like gorgeous golden chandeliers?

    cats @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    Sisters hanging out, holding hands (and feet)

    cats @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    Cuddle train has left the station!

    Showerthoughts @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    We're all just in Stockholm Syndrome to whatever culture we were born into.

    Diablo @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    D4: it's not that theres nothing to do, theres just nothing to get

    I enjoy the various endgame activities and tweaking my build to try new things. But it doesn’t seem right that I am only level 80 and haven’t gotten a piece of gear I care about in a long time. Grinding out those last Paragon points hardly seems worth it.

    Memmy - An iOS client for Lemmy @lemmy.ml
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    Linking to replies from inbox isn’t working and I’d ask this be given some priority.

    Bug description:

    1. Get a reply to a comment
    2. View your inbox, see that reply
    3. Wonder what your comment was again, and what they are replying to…
    4. Tap their reply

    Expect: go to the reply, in context, in the thread, ideally with your comment that they are replying to shown also (wefwef currently does this)

    Actual: go to thread, but neither the reply nor your comment are shown - you have to scroll the entire thread and find them

    Why a priority? Because this directly impedes back and forth conversation, which is the whole mode of Lemmy.

    Appreciate the work. Thanks for hearing this feedback.

    Gardening @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    The joy of Lantanas

    Gardening @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    the delicate peeling of manzanita bark

    Manzanita reminds me of my grandfather, passed on years since. There was a lot of it on his property and as a kid it was the only place I ever saw it. I’m happy that my current climate allows me to grow a couple. They help me remember.

    gameofthrones @lemm.ee
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    The First Men for the first post

    Artist credit: Bill Corbett, titled “Men of Duty”

    deviantart

    Memmy - An iOS client for Lemmy @lemmy.ml
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    So how do I switch accounts after this latest update? The drop-down on feed is no longer there.

    cats @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    Brother and sister touching paws while sleeping

    Gardening @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    What are you planting right now? Here’s a planting calendar guide by postal code, for US and Canada.

    If anybody has a guide they like better, please share.

    Gardening @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    It was a nutso year for poppies (and most everything here). Cant wait to see next year.

    These poppies have just been propagating naturally in my yard. I don’t do anything except leave them alone. We got so many this year that we spotted several people stopping to take selfies with them :)

    This is the first year I actively gathered these seeds and spread them around my yard to places that poppies don’t just spring up on their own. If we have any kind of rain this winter then spring will be insane.

    It’s pretty fun trying to gather these seeds because by the time the seed pods are mature, they’re also bent and flexed, which makes them split and POP and spread their seeds everywhere as soon as you touch them. So you have to grasp the whole pop in your hand quickly to get hold of any seeds. My kids had a blast with that.

    The wet winter and spring really made for a wild year here. It’s dry usually so only hardy, opportunist plants tend to survive. But this was such a year of plenty that everything green just WENT FOR IT. Man I hope we get more like that.

    Gardening @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    It’s not a proper gardening community without this posted at least once, so let’s get it out of the way :D

    Gardening @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    TIL that the USDA hardiness zones are each a ten-degree band of average minimum temperature in the fahrenheit scale, and the “a” and “b” suffixes break each zone down further into 5 degree ranges.

    I guess I thought they were more like distinct biomes but it really is just uniform chunks of temperature range. I also didn’t know that they were defined by the US Department of Agriculture, who created the first such system to help gardeners. There are similar maps for Australia, Canada, and parts of Europe, but no single global system. What’s your zone?

    Gardening @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    My first time growing spinach from seed and I have questions…

    I’ve bought spinach starts in the past and had a great time harvesting spinach all season - just a few leaves off the bunch each time and more would always grow.

    But this year I sprouted seeds myself and I was disappointed when they didn’t grow into the nice bunches I had seen before. Just these leggy little plants. They have nice leaves but not many of them.

    Should I be sprouting several seeds together? Or just plant a lot of these closer together? Is it an issue of variety? If anyone has thoughts I’d love to hear them. Thanks

    Diablo @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    I want to view my character screen during loading screens. Just view. That is all.

    Gardening @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    This potted succulent REALLY gave our doorstep some pizzazz this year

    Gardening @lemmy.world
    scarabic @lemmy.world

    Here’s what Romaine lettuce eventually becomes

    I had a great year for Romaine lettuce. After learning how nutritious it is, I started a bunch of seeds and they did really well. We had more than we could eat, and after a camping trip I came home to find they’d bolted (see picture). I recommend trying this plant if you have any interest. They are reportedly water intensive but I didn’t find them excessively so. I was also told they will bolt at the first sign of heat but that didn’t happen for me either. They were mature and harvestable for weeks, even with some hot days.