Fetlife sucks because of its lack of filtering. I don’t want to find someone who is in to similar kinks on the other side of the country/world. If they’d actually add ASL filtering to profiles it’d go a very long way.
Fetlife is like that too. “Find people with the same interests as you!”… select an interest: 120K people! Okay, let me filter by location? No. Filter by age? No. Filter by sex? Guess what, also No. So instead you have to hand scroll through all the entries. I don’t want to spend a lot of time connecting with someone with a common interest if they’re on the other side of the world.
So browsing around it for a bit and the biggest problem I see is the search sucks. Looked at Lacation and got 120k profiles with no way to filter it. Even with the groups there’s no way of finding a share group in my city.
Your requirements are almost impossible. 3,000 people over the course of a year is 8/day average. And you want to try to get to know all these people, along with no gangbangs or such? Including having meals, sleeping, etc.
Is it sad I took some solace in noting that storms can’t get much stronger than this due to physics. That’s not to downplay this storm, it’s no joke, but trying to find a silver lining.
Thank you for an honest response. I have asked her and get a “I really do enjoy anything” type of response but get a good reaction when I mix it up so I know that she likes the variety but doesn’t know what to ask for either.
Fetlife sucks because of its lack of filtering. I don’t want to find someone who is in to similar kinks on the other side of the country/world. If they’d actually add ASL filtering to profiles it’d go a very long way.