(they/he/she)
On your last question, from https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en/what-is-gender:
What Gender is not is sexual orientation. We describe orientation using terms relative to one’s gender (homosexual/heterosexual/bisexual, etc), but gender itself does not affect sexuality and sexuality has no role in gender.
Climb the Art Museum steps and GO INSIDE. It's a beautiful museum with a ton of famous art from many different eras. The Barnes has a ton of incredible art, too, mostly impressionism.
Most of the history stuff is probably obvious, but I took a tour into the tower of city hall that was pretty interesting. I don't know if they still do it.
Get a cheesesteak, sure, but get a roast pork sandwich. If you go to Reading Terminal Market, get it from Dinic's. While you're there, get a Beiler's doughnut.
Most of what I like is not touristy stuff, I guess. There are some really nice parks and neighborhoods I like to hang out in. I can recommend coffee shops.
main cw: dairy, eggs
I love carrot cake
It doesn't seem fair to me that mothers have two special days in the year and fathers only have one.
What about April Fools' Day?
The ADHD cope to research a thing for tens of hours across weeks or even months, agonizing over the purchase of the thing (especially if multiple options are available) before ultimately deciding that it isn't worth the relatively minuscule cost.
Mac and cheese is amazing with kimchi
Digital Audio Wwwwworkstation
Also dogs don't care about haircuts. Wear a fursuit to the shelter, that'll get 'em
Enshittification
Very cute! I've been wanting bangs for a while, but I'm scared...
I put too much ketchup on their plate.
Herndon and Dryhurst are frequent collaborators, and xhairymutantx is their work. So they didn't just prompt an LLM to make the image, they trained the model themselves. And they specifically trained the model on pictures of Herndon (who has distinctive red, braided hair).
I'm personally a really big fan of their work (which I don't expect everyone to be), but the picture that's being circulated in articles and apparently sold at auction without context is pretty uninspiring.
This isn't a shitpost, this is legitimate. Being able to work through the physicality of emotions is an important part of processing them. You need to be able to cry when you're sad, jump up-and-down when you're excited, and scream when your angry, for examples.
I like to cum laissez-faire
Some advice that's helped me is this: Stop saying "should". "Should" implies that there is some objectively correct action to take in your situation, but there isn't. Ask yourself if an action aligns with the kind of person that you want to be. You can absolutely do any of these things if you believe they align with your personal values, but you don't NEED to do anything. Without that pressure of trying to perform correctly to meet some external criteria, you can decide what you want to do based on your own values.
Anyway, I might not be describing the concept clearly, but I hope it's something that can help you.
If you want recommendations in Philly, DM me, I have lots! And some people I know are in New Jersey, too!
Was it The Most Unwanted Song?
Also, don't judge people for what they like, yourself included. It doesn't need to be reasonable or pretend to be intellectually significant.
A swordfish is a variety of fishpecker, not a unicorn
"Did you see that ludicrous display last night?"
"Oh, no, I only pay attention when my gender makes it to the playoffs."
Everyone's experience is different, and everyone will deal with different hangups, that's true. I grew up in a very repressed environment myself, actually, and it has been a real struggle and many years of shedding layer after layer of repression to get to where I am, and every time it's been learning how to listen to myself. I'm also not disagreeing with you either! ❤️