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    Who are you comfortable being naked around?

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  • It's not about the who but the context where I find myself. Being a bit of a naturist/nudist, nudity is not immediately sexual for me. I'm comfortable with my body. I do avoid making others feel awkward.

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  • Period sex is a thing. Nothing wrong or dangerous in it, if the woman in question wants to have it. It does require a bit more preparation and a lot more cleanup but it can be really fun.

    Some women become more sensible during their period and can achieve orgasm faster. Others don't even want to be touched and are instead very receptive to ice cream and pain medication. It varies from one woman to the next.

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    my word 🤤 - juicyjade9

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  • I'm scaroused

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    Ideas for free, secure, and privacy-friendly live videocall platforms

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  • First option coming to mind as well.

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    What sexy toys do you have?

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  • Very nice.

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    Ball stretching

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  • That pretty much sums it up.

    I was very afraid of hurting myself but realizing there was nice sensations to experiment with was an unexpected surprise.

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  • I have a few occasions.

    At some point in life, I lived in a newly developed area and I liked to take some long walks to clear my thoughts and... do stuff by myself, on the hills.

    I once spotted a couple making out near some old derelict wind mills. She had his meat in her hand and he had his hand between her tighs. She wasn't being shy in regards to how she enjoyed what he was doing to her. Watched for a few minutes, from a good safe distance, then sneaked away.

    More recently, while walking my dog, we literally surprised a couple that was getting it on hot and steamy in a secluded area of a nearby park. Off leash, my dog was a concern good boy and thinking the dude was hurting the girl, has she was trying to swallow his meat whole and grunting, barked at the guy, while staring down on them from a ledge. The girl screamed her lungs out then started cursing my dog, who barked again manifesting his disapproval of the reaction. I laughed my way home.

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    What communities LemmyNSFW is missing ?

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  • Dick appreciation/rating.

    As in, a guy posts a picture of his dick and can get it rated by the visitors. Extra funny if people leave comments recommending possible upgrades to the pictured junk or picture taking technique.

    If dick pics are a thing, lets try to make it more artistically valued.

    amateurs

    As in, no OnlyFans, etc. Just everyday people posting naughty content, for fun.

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    What was the first kink you tried and how did it shape your future sexual preferences?

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  • I don't really think I have kinks or fetishes. I do have curiosities and try to satisfy them, if feasible.

    I indulged in a few but it did not really change anything. Guess I'm just dull.

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  • Whatever you see fit. Nobody has the right to tell you otherwise.

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  • Ask why. Try to understand. It may be shocking but it is not my life but it someone I love. So, respect first, respect second, respect last.

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    What was the strangest intimate living arrangement you ever had or were close to having?

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  • My respect. That's some tough history.

  • How much of a deal breaker would be a high body count for you?

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  • It smells like reheated puritanism in here... Glad to know the more things change, the more they stay the same.

    No, it would not matter to me. I wouldn't ask, either. People deserve their privacy. But I'm aware of how outdated that concept may sound or be, nowadays. If I got to know, I'd like to know from the start. Because... yes.

    The least I'd expect would be for the person to respect me and make sure everything was well and safe, before condoms could be considered to be overlooked. I always made sure to watch my health in regards to others.

    I'm aware that for this hypothetical STDs are to be diaregarded but still...

    But "body count"? What happened to "sex partners" or "lovers"? Got too clinical or too intimate? I'd like to understand the almost pathological need of lingo nowadays to create distance or sound military. In this case, both at the same time. Let's dehumanize ourselves a bit more.

    Going back to the original question again:

    No, it does not matter how many people warmed their sheets or enjoyed their bits. Good for them, got lucky, but I get to keep the prize. Maybe share a bit, if we get a bit more on the wild side.

    Let's raise the stakes. What if the person is/was a sex worker? A prostitute or maybe a porn actor or actress? Does their line of work makes them less worthy of having emotional needs? Less human? Less of a person? Not really. In my understanding they are as deserving, if not even more, of having someone love, respect and support them.

    I remember watching this documentary on sex workers years back and how this actress described her need, after a long day of work of being fucked, to go home, have a shower, have a nice meal with her partner and afterwards go to bed and make love in the missionary position. Telling, isn't it?

    And in the extreme scenario of that long line of people stemming from some trauma or perhaps a mental health condition, again, it should not matter at all.

    I'm now available for your downvotes and vitriole.

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    How would you think a clothing optional society work, both initially and over time?

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  • Do yourself a favour and go to a nudist beach or a nude resort.

    Spend some time there. Meet some people and chat.

    Being naked is not sexual. We sexualize nakedness because we are usually taught from very young age to always be dressed and seeing exposed skin feels... naughty. When it really isn't.

    A nudist/clothing optional society would work like any other. If nudist, it would probably have lot less taboos. But keep in mind clothes also have a practical side to it.

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    How do I deal with TMJ with blowjobs?

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  • Putting it bluntly: you can't.

    If it's to the point of requiring surgery - although what is deemed as surgery requiring varies from place to place - there is no work aroud, no coping mechanisms.

    That narrow of a time window, on my own personal experience, tells your condition is pretty serious.

    Does your jaw clicks when you eat or talk?

    Maybe some physical therapy can ease you a bit. A good therapist may even work on the information you may give them, from what you remember from when you were diagnosed.

    Ball gags, or anything that forces your jaw open, are off the table. I'm making some guess work here but I think you have an higher than average risk of getting your jaw locked if you force it. I can't describe to you how painful that is and how even more painful it is to have it reset.

    I respect your fantasy/fetish/kink but you are better off putting this one to rest.

    Give what you can and whoever complains about it can go fuck themselves. And reading what you've posted, you grant a great joy ride for a lot of lucky dudes.

    I sincerely wish you can prove all of my worst expectations wrong, without endangering yourself in the process. And hope to read about if it ever happens.

    Stay strong.

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    How do I deal with TMJ with blowjobs?

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  • It's already been said but I'm going to stress it: have your TMJ checked.

    A simple x-ray exam will be enough to determine if whatever is causing you discomfort has an organic reason, at the bone structure level.

    Does your jaw pop or locks or catches if you yawn for too long? If so, you may have a disaligned joint or be suffering from some joint condition.

    If not, you may have something bothering you at the tendons/muscles level.

    Hopefully, it is something you can work around, with gradual exercise.

    One word of advice: ball gags or those implements used to keep the mouth open are to be avoided. Those put the joint, muscles and tendons under pressure. My best compliments to those who use it but it does horrors to the joints.

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    Cappuccino?

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  • I'm really confused.

    Cappucino? Fine.

    Naked lady? Also fine?

    Eye rolling from trying a cappucino? Strange.

    Stripping after it? Stranger.

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    Just wanted to show off [female]

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  • I'm glad you did. Very nice picture and very nice setting. Feels very intimate. Boudoir style.

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    The Box from Bandwith & Blüm [F28][solo][exhibitionism]

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  • Yes! Someone else posting written erotica.