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  • Wait, this is going to be a Funcom game?? Oh man, Funcom has made some of our favourite games! We adored Anarchy Online, and The Secret World is still one of the mmo's I would recommend to anyone who wants to try a really unique modern mmo with an amazing story.

    Unfortunately when they were developing TSW and Age of Conan, someone made the call to go all in on AOC which was just... not unique in a space saturated with that kind of WoW clone.

    TSW ended up not having the cashflow (devs) it needed to release updates and expansions and it fell into disfavour once the player base reached end game. Which is really sad, because even as a "dead" game the story and gameplay are so good.

    I really hope they have retained the devs that worked on TSW and have enough cash to push everything into this game. Make it unique like TSW and AO were, push a couple expansions, and there will be players.

  • This is so wrong. The council claims to have offered everyone somewhere to go, but often they want to place people hours away from everyone they know, or split families up with the father in one shelter 45 minutes by car away.

    With few trains and a ridiculous non-linear bus route system that takes "efficient" wandering routes, this 45 minutes is easily an hour and a half or more.

    We live near a major bus interchange and our daughters are going to uni in the city. It is 20 minutes by car, and 56 minutes by bus. It would take 3-4 hours of the day for this family to visit wherever they have been placed. While trying to get their life together?

    Criminalising homelessness is yet another step on the road to becoming more like America. I should know - I grew up there and this whole situation makes my blood run cold, because it's what I left 10 years ago.

  • This article is feeling kind of clickbaitish, as the sources are ... odd.

    However, restricting blood flow to the brain can also have serious health implications.

    While not all pressure on the neck will be fatal, research shows even relatively low pressure can cause death by strangulation.

    The first source is a medical journal describing the physiology of the arteries in the neck, and does not seem to include anything about restricting blood flow (never mind temporarily) having serious health consequences.

    The second source is a book from 1991 about autoerotic asphyxiation with the quote:

    autoerotic asphyxia denotes death resulting from failure of a release mechanism of the device, apparatus or prop designed to attain cerebral hypoxia for heightened arousal.

    Which is ... not the same as doing this with someone, and doesn't address the risks of a partner who releases pressure immediately after a loss of consciousness.

    The issues around consent are troubling indeed, consent should always be paramount.

    I also found it amusing that the beginning of the article said

    Although rare, strangulation is the leading cause of death in consensual BDSM play.

    Which links to a study that found a total of 16 cases that included strangulation between 1982 and 2020. Rare indeed.

    My husband and I dabble in breath play, so I was curious and read a few studies myself. It seems that every case study I could find included atypical circumstances. Things like accidental hanging, or asphyxiation due to bags etc being over the head.

    This paper includes a 50 year review of cases for anyone interested. https://benthamopen.com/contents/pdf/TOFORSJ/TOFORSJ-1-1.pdf

    It is also worth noting that loss of consciousness due to cutting off blood flow to the brain (cerebral hypoxia) is not dissimilar to the hypoxia experienced by pilots, who even train with repeated exposure to hypoxia in hyperbaric chambers.

    I would be curious to know if there were any studies of the long term effects of this on pilots. (My dive into the rabbit hole is done for the day, lol.)

  • Want to see what happens when you do this?

    https://www.aihw.gov.au/reports/children-youth/childrens-headline-indicators/contents/indicator-7

    Notice the two states with the highest rates of dental decay are Queensland and Northern Territory?

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Water_fluoridation_in_Australia

    Yeah, those states didn't get flouride in their water until around 2012.

    Such a coincidence...

    It's also completely silly because many places have naturally fluoridated water!

  • The media would have you believe that no one is fighting back, this is because if you feel alone you are less likely to fight back.

    The title of the article implies that it's just silly that a traffic officer was confronted at his house by ICE, but what really matters in this article is the people following those ICE agents with megaphones.

    They are doing what is right, while taking personal risk, and their bravery should be spread far and wide, so others will be emboldened to act.

    There are always good people, there are always those who will fight, you are not alone.

  • We move a lot, and always struggle to remember the little things that differ in the various public transit systems. We were in Melbs recently and got yelled at for trying to tap off on a tram.

    Then they introduced 50c fares here in Brisbane and we rode the bus and didn't see anything about tapping off on the signage so we didn't tap off.

    For failing to tap off we were charged $5. Even though the fare is 50c.

  • I live in Australia where the temperatures get insane and destroy most electronics left in cars.

    I have a Viofo A229 PRO 3CH, it has a module that faces forward, and a separate camera that gives a view of the inside of my car as well as some of the outside sides, and a third camera on a long line that is mounted on my rear window that has a view of the rear.

    The images are clear, I can read licence plates easily day and night, and after being in two accidents it gives me peace of mind that I am protected in court if someone hits me again.

  • ^ This!

    I learned the retinol lesson the hard way. I used to use retin-a daily, and wasn't careful about getting it near my eyes because I wasn't sensitive to it.

    I now have chronic dry eye, this eventually got so bad I couldn't see, and had to go get ipl treatments once a month, have the meibomian glands expressed, and have punctal plugs placed every month, then every few months. (don't google any of that)

    After it got "better" I only have to do this stuff every 6 months...

    It's expensive.

    Stay safe kids, never put a retinol near your eyes.

  • Ah, I somehow missed this comment. There are lots of reasons one night need lube, a longer session, a size mismatch, use of toys during, and anal to name a few reasons.

    With enough foreplay anal is possible without lube with an uncircumcised guy, but is definitely not possible with a circumcised guy.

  • It's common in kink circles, but so is proper cleaning. It is common to use Madacide or similar hospital grade cleaners with toys that will be shared. At home we use a chlorhexidine surgical wash on all our toys.

    I wouldn't trust a random guy during a vanilla encounter to have proper cleaning and storage techniques, but would be fine if he showed me that he did.

  • I was a stay at home mom/wife at various times in my 10 year marriage. I hate the term tradwife, but I guess I fit the picture.

    If I wasn't working, the house was my job. I did all the shopping, cooking, cleaning, laundry. I made an effort to freshen up before he got home from work.

    We found that when I was a housewife we actually had more time together, instead of trying to smash out laundry and un-fuck the house on weekends, it was all done, meaning we could just hang out when he was off work.

    I do enjoy my work so for now I keep doing it part time, but I don't think being in a marriage that has traditional roles is all that polarising.

  • This is interesting, I'm currently in Japan and noticed the Starbucks here are huge with many tables and chairs and they are packed with people sitting and reading, doing homework, etc. Many don't have drinks or appear to hang out there all day.

    Why has America made everything so hostile?

  • Cross stitch and embroidery @sh.itjust.works
    indomara @lemmy.world

    Just in time for our best friends' wedding!

    I love cheeky cross stitch, this was a free pattern found on the DMC website, then I chose a font I liked for the words. I think it came out great!

    Australia @aussie.zone
    indomara @lemmy.world

    An Aussie man who "waited six months" to have his local council fill a huge hole left by an uprooted tree outside his home has been slapped with a $11,500 fine for eventually doing it himself.

    cats @lemmy.world
    indomara @lemmy.world

    Gamma needs a nap after his nap.

    You Should Know @lemmy.world
    indomara @lemmy.world

    YSK you can use Imagus or any hover to zoom addon to quickly view images and gifs on your Lemmy front page

    I got used to this on the site that shall not be named, sometimes I don't want to open the whole image or post. With the addon if I hover over the image button that would expand the image, it will show the image full size for as long as I hover over it, no clicking needed, this works with gifs as well.