I’m not saying that “it’s ok” or makes me a good person that that’s the list but I’m saying these are things I don’t have to deal with/ think/worry about, being single.
Everyone gets jealous. Everyone judges their partner at some point on something.
Im aware of the contradictions I made but it’s just the reality of things.
We don’t like being with people for selfish reasons sometimes too. Sometimes I don’t want to have to concern myself with someone else’s well being and I also don’t like feeling judged or like I’m not 🎵 “the only girl in the world” to my partner (no matter how unrealistic that is!). Those things aren’t mutually exclusive but yes it is hypocritical to say that. Or selfish. But true.
And that’s what this post is about. The price you pay for being selfish. You don’t get the good parts if you don’t accept some things that could make you a better person for putting up with.
But often times it’s easier to just forget the whole thing because it’s too much.
And I’m sorry if I offended with saying “natural woman” I think it comes from comparing myself a lot and seeing my bubbly and confident sisters and then how opposite I feel.
I dont feel like I engage in femininity or connected to my womanhood etc. and I feel like part of that is because I don’t have much motivation to like maybe my sisters might… so I wanna take hrt in the hopes it will change that.
Lol ok thanks