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  • Dell did it years ago, not sure if they stopped or what.

  • Despite what the headline implies, it has been known since 2016 that Greenland was ice free at least once in the past 2.6 million years.

  • Yes but it's still weird because it wasn't the right time of year for it to have fruit. The tree would have if Jesus hadnt been a dick.

  • Become part of The Green

  • I feel like I'm in an abusive relationship with technology.

  • I actually seriously considered that thought for the first time the other day. Turns out hurting my family is a pretty good motivator to not off myself. It's a double edged sword though because I also don't do other things I want because I don't want to hurt them or face their condemnation.

  • Permanently Deleted

  • Yup, but around the time they came out with Google Desktop I started to wonder what the future held.

  • Credit to ArtByMoga

  • Or even be a cis woman.

  • SC3000 was the last city builder game that could hold my attention and didn't feel like it was constantly rushing me with no time to enjoy what I'd built. I'm sure getting older played a part in that too.

  • They already know

  • Please don't be mean to me. I'm just trying to get by with the bare minimum of effort.

  • Touched by His noodley appendage

  • He looks completely normal. Don't be an ass.

  • Chicken prices are going to skyrocket because the people who work the farms are all from central and south America. They're already pulling their kids from school and are laying low. If ICE really starts cracking down Chick-fil-A is fucked.

  • If there are no more rules then it's time we start acting like it.

  • 25 years ago my super Christian parents knew about trans people and children who identified as trans. There were news shows about trans kids. They didn't care.

    I think a lot about how we got here and about how this was inevitable.

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Kate-ay @lemmy.world

    My rule hurts

    A screenshot of a Google search with the text "is it possible to die from eating too much trail mix" followed by several search suggestions.

    196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Kate-ay @lemmy.world

    Règle

    Description: screenshot of Tumblr with two posts. One describes how Sherlock Holmes would figure out you're trans before you even do. The second describes how Hercule Poirot would figure out you're trans after initially suspecting you of murder and then clearing you're name. Then he gives you a kissy kiss.

    Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world
    Kate-ay @lemmy.world

    When joining a virtual meeting, how close to the meeting time do you join?

    I try to join about 5 minutes before because I'm terrified of being the first person or the last.

    Microblog Memes @lemmy.world
    Kate-ay @lemmy.world

    There has to be another way

    Post on Bluesky that says, "please stop suggesting I solve my problem by changing my behavior. I do not want to do that."

    Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Kate-ay @lemmy.world

    Jewelry that can be worn when I'm boymoding

    I'd like some advice on jewelry I can wear out and about when I'm presenting as a man. Preferably something that wouldn't get too many looks on a 40 year old.

    Simple gold or silver chains are an obvious choice. Bead mala bracelets too.

    Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Kate-ay @lemmy.world

    Close friend came out as a trans woman to me and has started transitioning. She doesn't know that I am trans too.

    Long story short, I've known that I was trans long before I had even heard the word. There were signs as early as 4 years old and I knew by the time I was 8. I'm in my late 30's now and I had come to a kind of peace about not transitioning. It's something that I want but because of life, family, and a lot of fear I decided not to.

    Recently a very close friend who I've know for decades came out to me as a trans woman.

    I want to tell her about myself but I'm worried about planting seeds of doubt about her transition because I've known I was trans for so long and yet haven't started transitioning myself. I'm afraid that if I try and explain why that she might internalize my reasons. If that makes sense. I've never told anyone my truth and I'd so love to have someone to talk to about it. Especially since my friends transition is causing me to second guess myself.

    I would appreciate some thoughts on whether I should tell my friend.

    196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Kate-ay @lemmy.world

    Literary rule

    Photo of text from Player Piano by Kurt Vonnegut. The text says "Big tits will get you in anywhere."

    depression_now! @lemmy.world
    Kate-ay @lemmy.world

    I might be going crazy

    We all have those moments where we think back on something we did and cringe at it. Over the past year though I've begun to do it almost every waking moment.

    I began to say to myself in my head "fuuuuuck fuck fuck fuck" and "I want to die" and eventually I started to mutter it under my breath. Now I'm starting to just blurt it out without thinking at inappropriate moments. It's probably only a matter of time before that gets me in trouble. I know my wife has heard me before and now she doesn't ask what's wrong, she just looks at me.

    It's gotten to the point too where it doesn't start with the memory of an action but while I'm still performing the action or in a conversation.

    I don't really want to die, probably. But this shit is weird. Am I going crazy? I'm worried that soon I will be paralyzed and unable to act or interact at all. Maybe I'm already there, who knows.