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  • I don't think you're disregarding me, your concerns are valid and natural. It sounds like you're having a tough time emotionally right now, just in a different way than before.

    It honestly doesn't sound like it would be healthy for you to pursue a relationship right now. You clearly have feelings for your friend, and while you logically know it can't happen, you're not quite over her emotionally. Getting into a relationship, or even dating, someone else at the moment isn't healthy for you, and also isn't fair to the person you'd be dating. You need to work on getting over your friend first, before adding more people to the mix.

    Do you have a therapist? You hopefully do, considering your history of suicidal ideation. If you have upcoming therapy sessions, I suggest bringing your crush on your engaged friend up to your therapist, and they might be able to help you process things. You might also want to dial down your interactions with that friend for a while.

    When you feel ready to put yourself out there, I would personally not try to approach anyone at work. If it happens naturally that's okay, but I would personally prefer not to mix my dating and professional life if I could avoid it. Maybe there is some activity you could do once or twice a week where you'd meet people? I met my wife at an event at a local climbing gym. There are also dance classes, mountaineering clubs, art or pottery classes, and other activities which you might enjoy while meeting women with similar interests.

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  • You're much better off just doing it in one go. What you are considering doing is called structuring, and will, unlike making a large transfer, result in mandatory reporting and a money laundering investigation.

    Contrary to popular misunderstanding, the reporting requirement does not apply to checks or electronic transactions. Financial institutions suspecting deposit structuring with intent to avoid the law are required to file a suspicious activity report (SAR).

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Structuring

  • It's not you, dating is just awful. I suggest not doing it. You've entered relationships before without dating, you can do it again. I have personally found that I'm a lot more attractive when I'm not actively trying to woo someone.

  • I haven't seen a single soul on the left argue for ignoring the constitution, and if you have I'd love to see where you got that from. At most you'd see leftist arguing that the militias of 2A should be well regulated like the constitution literally says.

    Also, people on the left complain about stuff Democrat presidents do all the time. It's how Democrats keep losing elections. What kind of constitutional overreach are you referring to which didn't get complaints from the left? I'd genuinely love to know, because I clearly missed it.

  • Yes. The question is if there's hope in a better way than 1930's Germany. They turned out all right, but it got a lot worse before it got better. We'll see if America goes all the way to rock bottom or not. Trump fucking up the economy is ironically what gives me a sliver of hope.

  • They couldn't keep him if they wanted to. California has term limits, and his last term is coming to an end. Now he's trying to position himself for whatever he's doing next, which some suggest is running for president.

    The whole podcast is probably just a big "look Mom, I can reach across the aisle!"