he’s apparently learning mandarin and has, for some reason, posted in mandarin a few times in comments
我也是。。。

i frankly don’t care what your excuse/reason is.
I get it, it explains your behavior that you were abused. that your father screams at you and you have substance abuse issues, ptsd, and were bullied since age 5. i completely understand, but to beat up and bully/insult others because of it IS NOT OKAY.
i believe there’s good and bad in everyone, and potentially you could let out your good side, but im also hypersensitive and hate when people let out their bad sides intentionally regardless of stuff like this.
hating people because of their skin color or disability or sexuality, you should be fucking ashamed.

gross either way, but do friends actually talk like this or would this be from people who are dating or something?
it probably doesn’t really matter, but i was added to a group chat with someone who was harassing me and they were talking to another girl in the gc like this. do friends really talk like this nowadays or are they likely doing it/dating or something? still gross, and especially on a gc.
like, i’ve seen friends flirt but they don’t act like that.
[my partner is currently talking to them for this and also for last encounter with Emma too]

i feel so icky
(i am genderfluid and bi btw but still sapphic 🙏 😅)
i’ve seen people joke flirt with each other as friends, but not like this, so idk if these two are friends or dating. Emma is being nicer so i added her alt when she added me to a gc, but these things she”s saying and what she’s doing in a group chat instead of dm’s is kinda putting me off…

im a male alter (though the body is afab) but i love having a feminine body, am i still transmasc?
im so confused, in my source im a guy and i’ve never questioned it but i love having a feminine body. i don’t really feel like a girl as a gender but i feel really good in a feminine body.
am i the asshole for whatever made her angry/the way i interacted?
believe it or not, emma (a girl i know who has been harassing me and even made a lemmy account) is 16, but acts younger. i’m 18.




„ i would feel like a bitch”
okay, number 1: you are, ashlyn.
number 2: you know exactly what you’re doing and should keep that thought in your head. if you really don’t want to look like a bitch, be respectful, stop gaslighting people, and say something more like „i didn’t know how to word it” or something.
she should stop playing the victim.
and ashlyn needs to take accountability, lena should just outright say „yeah, you are a bitch.”
i wanna see it :)

what instances allow you to follow users?
this, lemm.ee, does not, but i know some instances do.

Og de var «romkamerater»…
(Jeg kan ikke legge ut bilder på denne kontoen)
different. i’m afab and genderfluid, but my 3 frequent alters are male, female, and enby