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Lime Buzz (fae/she) @ SweetCitrusBuzz @beehaw.org

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Plural and not human, don't include or refer to us in any way as being human, we aren't.

Never tell us what we're feeling, why we're doing something or what we are etc.

Not here to punish, your punitive mindset is showing.

Ask more questions, assume less.

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  • Did they ever apologise properly for what they did to that player that said free Hong Kong and allow him to play again or have we all just forgotten that?

  • The steam discussion forums shouldn't exist. Steam doesn't want to moderate them and neither do the developers. Absolutely garbage feature.

  • Indulging in layoffs? [Sarcasm] What a surprise.

  • No, seriously, they are, it is the only thing that helps long term. I am not saying that people with 'cluster b' 'personality disorders' never harm anyone. However it is likely not moreso than anyone or anymany can harm others.

    It is interesting you assumed that because we defended people with 'cluster b' traits or diagnoses that we have such things too. We don't, we just have known many people with such and they haven't been like you described, and we have actually looked into such things whilst avoiding all the unwarranted hatred that makes people unnecessarily hate on such people no matter what.

    Scientific theories are not the same as lay person 'theories', scientific theories are called such because science does not seek to 'prove' anything but have increasingly more evidence for any such thing, therefore this is why it is a theory, not because it is not 'proven' yet but because that is how science does things.

    Also, we actually looked into the 'dark triad' and it has nothing to do what you are talking about, it is: Sub clinical narcissism (so decidedly not 'NPD'), Machiavellianism and Sub clinical psycopathy (So again nothing that is diagnosed professionally). It may be that you are falling victim to the jingle-jangle fallacies also.

    We dismiss things like the DSM and ICD (though the ICD isn't just to do with trauma, psychological diversity etc but diseases like covid etc) because we have seen that in a lot of things they do more harm than good in their diagnoses of people and it is better to deal with the underlying causes, thinking and feelings as many therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists, and theraputic practices do.

    Regardless people with NPD, BPD and ASPD belong here are deserve help to get better, especially if they have harmed others because not helping them will not stop such, in my experience and understanding, understandable reactions to what they went through.

    People need to stop being armchair psychologists and having instant hatred and though understandable in some cases, fear of them and deal with them on a case-by-case basis like we do with anybody. If they are being cruel then that is what is best to deal with, not assume they know everything about them because they might have read a book or disgnoses once. Instead get to know them as a person and help them, denigrating and exiling them from community does not help in most cases, if anything it makes them 'worse'. If you don't wish to be in community with them, that's perfectly reasonable. However, always exiling them regardless of how they behave is not the best reaction as then they cannot be helped, they aren't their dianoses but real people who need justice (restorative and transformative) and help.

    We have seen much hatred towards 'cluster b' diagnosed people here, other places online and offline too and we have seen very few situations which made us think they deserved it, they aren't incapable of change and a quick call out or call in and suggestion towards a particular action, love care and understanding is usually enough to help, not the constant hate and fearmongering they get which makes them understandably react in ways which are not helpful but anybody that understands what they might have been through will understand why they react like that.

    We hope this helps you grow and react better to 'cluster b' diagnosed people and you do some research and actually talk to people with such diagnoses or experts in such things.

  • No. Absolutely not. You sound like a conspiracy theorist who like most conspiracy theorists has no idea what they are talking about.

    Most people with the 'dark triad' are not rewarded, but downtrodden, destitute and in need of help.

    We are sick of this kind of hiding hate behind barely contained nonsense and then saying that of course it is not the individuals that are the problem, we see exactly what you are doing and it is not going to fly here.

    Please take your hateful likely unresearched opinions and actually talk to actual people with such neurodivergences and people in the therapy etc fields. A lot of them will tell you that they are working on their problems and therapists worth a damn will likely tell you that obviously people are going to come out of abuse and mistreatment with such things as it's completely understandable reactions to abuse, some might even tell you the DSM should be burned because it leads to harmful shit like you just spouted.

    People like that need love and understanding, not more hate, alienation and absolutely disgusting fearmongering of them.

  • Non DID/OSDD plurality should really be on here ioo.

  • Nice to see things like NPD on here, which is where it belongs.

  • Yeah, we agree. Furthermore do not get into kink like this, it will not go well. Look for good kink educators like Evie Lupine and Watts the Safeword and go to classes where consent and safety are lauded as the key to good kink, because they are. If you need a place to discuss it then !kink@lemmy.blahaj.zone is a safe place for education and discussion around it.

  • Okay, thanks for letting us know! Hope whatever you choose goes well and that you will be well.

  • Yeah, most of the time such extreme body remaking is either for themselves or other men, not actually for women. Shame they cannot accept this.

  • What servers were you on and what clients were you using?

  • Honestly the US needs a new consitution and not just more admendments. It should be updated to modern understandings, using more up-to-date and clear language. I'm aware that's probably impossible in today's political climate, but it would help a lot.

  • It should always be the indigenous people. Land back, all of it.

  • That's awful! We hope that person gets the help he needs whilst being kept away from the ability to harm.

  • Music @beehaw.org
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    Swing Sisters Volume One (Mixed by Tallulah Goodtimes)

    A really enjoyable swing album made by women only.

    Gaming @beehaw.org
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    What are some games you like that most people hate and/or were panned by critics?

    What are some games you like that most people hate, view negatively and/or were panned by critics?

    Betterment and Praxis @beehaw.org
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    How To Not Be Clocked As A Not-So Nice Guy by Mainely Mandy

    cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/18172576

    A hilarious video explaining how not to look like a Not-So nice guy if you're giving a speech to many people!

    Jokes and Humor @beehaw.org
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    How To Not Be Clocked As A Not-So Nice Guy by Mainely Mandy

    cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/18172576

    A hilarious video explaining how not to look like a Not-So nice guy if you're giving a speech to many people!

    Politics @beehaw.org
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    How To Not Be Clocked As A Not-So Nice Guy by Mainely Mandy

    A hilarious video explaining how not to look like a Not-So nice guy if you're giving a speech to many people!

    FtM - For Trans Men @lemmy.ml
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    DIY HRT: Everything I Can Legally Tell You by Lily Alexandre

    cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/18135870

    A great video about both getting hormones and blockers and how to safely use them if you want or have to do it DIY.

    Transfurs @pawb.social
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    DIY HRT: Everything I Can Legally Tell You by Lily Alexandre

    cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/18135870

    A great video about both getting hormones and blockers and how to safely use them if you want or have to do it DIY.

    Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    DIY HRT: Everything I Can Legally Tell You by Lily Alexandre

    cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/18135870

    A great video about both getting hormones and blockers and how to safely use them if you want or have to do it DIY.

    Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    DIY HRT: Everything I Can Legally Tell You by Lily Alexandre

    cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/18135870

    A great video about both getting hormones and blockers and how to safely use them if you want or have to do it DIY.

    LGBTQ+ @beehaw.org
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    DIY HRT: Everything I Can Legally Tell You by Lily Alexandre

    A great video about both getting hormones and blockers and how to safely use them if you want or have to do it DIY.

    Beehaw Support @beehaw.org
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    The Racism which happened in FOSS

    Hello, so a few days ago now, a lot of Racism happened in FOSS and we were wondering what happened to those that were racist by defending the cultural appropriation which was pointed out, either directly or by ridicule.

    Sadly the original post (and thus the comments) is gone, though we saved screenshots of all the offending people and posts.

    We would like to know if anything was done about these people as we can see nothing in the modlog.

    Thanks.

    Plural - for those who are never alone @lemm.ee
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    An emotionless protector/guardian

    We get the feeling that most protectors/guardians etc are actively hostile or feel angry etc most of the time, and the person in our group who does this for us is like that sometimes. However, mostly it is emotionless or has low emotion and we were wondering if y'all/y&/you&/you experience that.

    We think the reason they are like this is because it allows us to be more clear, honest and leave the extreme emotion that overwhelmed at least one of us behind.

    It has gotten angry before and once very upset when something happened without their consent (it wasn't anything big and got resolved quickly).

    So yeah, feel free to let us know if y'all'd/y&'d/you&'d/you'd like.

    Transgender @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    Squid Game 2's trans character is great... but there's a still a problem by Council of Geeks

    cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/17983418

    A great video about how cis people should stop playing trans characters especially if the actor is the gender they are transitioning from not to.

    Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    Squid Game 2's trans character is great... but there's a still a problem by Council of Geeks

    cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/17983418

    A great video about how cis people should stop playing trans characters especially if the actor is the gender they are transitioning from not to.

    Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    Squid Game 2's trans character is great... but there's a still a problem by Council of Geeks

    cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/17983418

    A great video about how cis people should stop playing trans characters especially if the actor is the gender they are transitioning from not to.

    Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    Squid Game 2's trans character is great... but there's a still a problem by Council of Geeks

    cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/17983418

    A great video about how cis people should stop playing trans characters especially if the actor is the gender they are transitioning from not to.

    LGBTQ+ @beehaw.org
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    Squid Game 2's trans character is great... but there's a still a problem by Council of Geeks

    A great video about how cis people should stop playing trans characters especially if the actor is the gender they are transitioning from not to.

    Politics @beehaw.org
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    100 Slaps: The Breaking News The Games Industry Ignored in 2024 by People Make Games

    cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/17930532

    This one is very shocking, there's lots of things it covers: Abuse in general, religious abuse, psychological abuse, self harm, fat{phobia/misia}, misogyny, power dynamics etc. We still recommend watching it if you can deal with those things and the content warnings in the video because it shows the truth of the companies behind your favourite games and the systems which demand inexpense which leads to abuse and other awful things.

    feminism @lemmy.ml
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    100 Slaps: The Breaking News The Games Industry Ignored in 2024 by People Make Games

    cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/17930532

    This one is very shocking, there's lots of things it covers: Abuse in general, religious abuse, psychological abuse, self harm, fat{phobia/misia}, misogyny, power dynamics etc. We still recommend watching it if you can deal with those things and the content warnings in the video because it shows the truth of the companies behind your favourite games and the systems which demand inexpense which leads to abuse and other awful things.

    Feminism @beehaw.org
    Lime Buzz (fae/she) @beehaw.org

    100 Slaps: The Breaking News The Games Industry Ignored in 2024 by People Make Games

    cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/17930532

    This one is very shocking, there's lots of things it covers: Abuse in general, religious abuse, psychological abuse, self harm, fat{phobia/misia}, misogyny, power dynamics etc. We still recommend watching it if you can deal with those things and the content warnings in the video because it shows the truth of the companies behind your favourite games and the systems which demand inexpense which leads to abuse and other awful things.