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  • A lot of times I'll write out a comment and end up deleting it. Most times it's because I feel like it's something that's already been said or not worth reading but I'll try to be less of a lurker.

  • I agree, but it's frustrating to try to change perspective and make some changes while also seeing no results.

    I'm in the college age group so I think it's still somewhat realistic to make friends just for the sake of friends. I know people are busy with classes or work as so am I, but we can't be THAT busy ALL the time. I probably exaggerated being ghosted but it's happened so much that it's infuriating. I know there are times where you just don't feel like hanging out anymore on a particular day but at least give a raincheck if plans were made.

    Maybe it's also the few friends I have left or it's the age group, but it's tiring to just hear "nah hop on discord". Like at this point I only have online friends left because we only socialize through online and playing video games while we could literally be going out doing something on the weekend. Had a conversation with a couple of them about it and they just see no reason to hangout irl. Maybe in person socializing isn't important or valued.

  • I wouldn't call trying to make plans with friends and meet new people then end up being ghosted or ditched as not taking initiative to socialize but alrighty. It's exhausting, and for nothing to come out of it for months on end makes it seem pointless.