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KelvarCherry [They/Them]

@ KelvarCherry @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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  • You can prove it. YouTube gives ad revenue to affiliate and partner creators. Manosphere content pushes the argument that "Life is hard for men"—verifying the feelings of stress and FOMO and resentment and inadequacy natural for all in this social sphere; blame that as being "because modern women...blahblah"—presenting a worldview that puts that responsibility on another group that isn't their audience; and then tears down some strawman of said "modern woman".

    This content validates the painful feelings that toxic masculinity tells young men to suppress, without giving a tangible responsibility to the target audience. The narrative is simple: men need good women to be successful; and woke women are bad. This narrative also provides a justification for any feelings of inadequacy that again shifts the blame onto women. If a man needs a good woman to be good, and you aren't happy with your life, then that's not your fault—it's the fault of women!

    The difficult aspect is that this content connects with real feelings that need to be validated; and many of them are based in reality. Like... HR is shredding your resumes, but that's still true if the rep/higher-up is a man. Work culture is toxic, but not because of feminism. You probably aren't doing as well as prior generations; but that's the economy and the underlying trauma of 21st century chaos. School did fuck you over, but not because it "emasculates boys". We can't just attack their manosphere beliefs; and labeling it as Misogyny or Violent just makes young men identify with those labels. We have to provide an alternate worldview.

  • USAmericans are living in turmoil, struggling to makes ends meet; We see headlines like this, and then we see our representatives—Democrat representatives—sit around. I'm aware this order is illegal, and maybe it would be "pointless" to reiterate that; but maybe it wouldn't. Maybe restating the president can't take control of elections would actually persuade enough of the Supreme Court to tell Trump to ask Congress. Maybe a few defectors would join Democrats in refusing to give Trump that control. What else are our representatives going to be doing? Attending lobbyist parties?

    This is why so many USA folks are bitter and jaded about our nation, the Democratic Party, and voting in general. We have seen resistance efforts against ICE, especially now in Minneapolis and St. Paul. We've seen lawyers and civil rights activists assemble to assist marginalized groups. Soup kitchens and food pantries continue to get essential support, even during this economic recession. During the shutdown, while SNAP benefits were illegally withheld, even restaurants were offering free meals to SNAP recipients. And not one bit of this was thanks to the so-called opposition party. People with local businesses or full-time jobs—people with family members to care for—are taking on this effort; and the vast majority of the folks making $174,000 a year in their political representative job aren't involved beyond showing up to their cushy office, walking into the chamber, and pressing the "No" button that they know won't stop anything. Then, when that vote would have power, they give the All-Clear to the fascists...all three times now.

    Not one member of the Senate even requested the "Big Beautiful Bill" be read out in full—a procedure which likely would have delayed the bill by months. Introducing the bill by name alone requires unanimous consent; and Republicans got it. Again and again we watch as limp-spined Democrats follow their geriatric delulu leader Schumer, and their followers yell at everyone who criticizes them—pro-Palestine protestors; Newsom critics; those calling for resistance—It's agonizing.

  • and Biden was a neocon. The scale shifts ever rightward.

  • That slop doesn't work on us, but there are an alarming number of people who see content and just agree with it. No critical thinking whatsoever. I used to think that was just the Boomers and maybe some jaded Gen X folk; but the mass-dependency on generative AI showed me that Gen Z and Millenials are just as susceptible.

  • wow that thumbnail is disgusting. 10 fucking hours of this garbage!? and this is "popular" content... which supposedly means people actually watch this.

    Quick callout to all the people who nodded along to stuff like this for the last 3 years; then whine about marginalized folks being "so political" about ongoing genocides. </3

  • Yes I am familiar with Desert Bus. I was thinking of that game and a few based off it when I wrote my second paragraph. That, and the abundance of flash games targeted toward kids.

    For "possible to beat" I really mean possible. Not humanly reasonable. If there is a way for a standard human to do it, as difficult as it may be, it counts. Unless the game is unfinished, has no means of completion (like some Action52 games) or is impossible by design—like, the player can not cross a gap impossible—it counts. For stuff that requires staying awake for 100 hours... I suppose stimulants could be provided. That or you switch to polyphasic sleep.

  • Showerthoughts @lemmy.world

    It is impossible to beat every (single-player; possible; human-made content) video game

  • Fire stations are public utilities owned by local governments. Also, hospitals are regularly visited by people, whereas fire stations are more private as they mainly send out and return from dispatches.

  • AI bros made Cocomelon for AI bros. Insane.

  • Why would we want people to read? Sensational headlines are far more compelling. The body of an article? That's just to legitimize our opinions. How else do we set ourselves apart from the hundreds of thousands of other opinion makers on mainstream social media?

  • We need to erase these age checks and the culture that encourages them. I will continue to say this—unfettered internet access does far more Good than Harm; especially in this climate.

  • maybe show some respect to this man who got out of his house and tried something. We don't know how he voted. We don't know what this man believed, besides that he was rightfully disgusted by the Epstein Files. Lots of people disagree with their parents; like, y'know, the killers behind the last two big assassinations.

  • That would be fraud. I'm sure it happens, and it's going to be hard to prove it did. This whole system is undoubtedly rotten, and I'm not excusing any part of it.

  • THANK YOU. Also the German Army was weak before Hitler's rise (hence the loss in WWI which the Nazi's attributed to the "Stab in the Back" theory). Germany also owed significant debt for reparations in the Treaty of Versailles. And the mobilization of Eurasia, the USA and Canada is no small feat.

    None of this is true here. The USA has the strongest and most expensive army in the world. The USA largely was the army of the "Free World"—I say was because it's clear the USA is aligned closer to China and Russia. Sure, the USA is in debt; but it's all imaginary numbers because the USA also prints the world currency.

    Also: nukes. We've got nukes. We've got TONS of nukes. In WWII, Germany did not have nukes. Japan did not have nukes. Now, nukes are not nation-enders; but they are fierce deterrents, especially against democracies where leaders have to answer questions like "Why did you provoke the USA into turning my family into shadows over foreign policy?".

    [The world unifies to save the USAmericans] is a prediction so self-absorbed and far-fetched, you'd only hear it from a USAmerican. The UK, Canada, Germany; they've all got their own rising fascist movements to suppress—and Again, hurting your civilians over foreign politics is extremely unpopular.

  • After 7 years without any payment, most debt including medical debt and standard loans are discharged. The non-payment is key. Even sending a cent will restart the obligation to that debt

  • It's relieving in a terrible way to see this acknowledged. I've heard far too many people over the last 15 months argue that this is just a roadbump, or talk about it like the typical Republican administration of economic strain and erosion of some civil rights. This is unprecedented in our country's history. This is not something to hunker down and wait out.

    Even the idea that "fascism will inevitably collapse" is an oversimplification and wishful thinking. I understand that much of this inaction is trauma from the strain of us living in a post 9/11 America, which up until now has been a slow-burn erosion of rights and tightening of economic conditions. Trump's second term is in every way a different beast. It was well apparent that it would be since before the election even happened: Project 2025. The signs reading "MASS DEPORTATIONS". Hell; I thought the Alt-Right Insurrection on Jan 6th, 2021 was so blatantly anti-democratic that Trump would have no chance of winning in 2024. I was clearly wrong.

    Look at China. Look at Russia. That's where the USA is heading. Those nations are fascist, too. That is the type of fascism I see this country falling into. It's not going to be loud, with massive parades and MAGA Youth programs—Not in a country with this many people, this large an area; and this many guns. The fascism of the USA will be like it has been for the last year: With citizens disappeared from our streets; Agents exploiting our already shredded rights; and surveillance networks tracking our every move. That is life in China and Russia; and those nations are well-settled in those systems.

    The course of the USA is to fall into a fascism of the system. It will not be our military harming our citizens. The violence will be carried out in policies enacted by people with faces and roles; under the guise of "just doing a job" or "protecting their community". Hell, let's not pretend like that wasn't already the case. The War on Drugs, The Patriot Act, the regular abuses of police against protestors.... This nation has been one of systemic violence since well before Trump took the stage in 2015. Just look to the population held imprisoned without being found guilty in our prisons, hospitals, and CIA detention centers.

    I applaud the resistance in Minneapolis and Saint Paul. What happened in the Twin Cities was the first bit of resistance we've seen in this entire administration (excluding one-day attacks—I am not downplaying their significance.) Regarding the rest of this nation: What happened throughout the last year (especially the atrocities of ICE) is well beyond what I inherently assumed would be the "snapping point". The fact that our economy and institutions are continuing in the midst of such blatant oppression and corruption, has me convinced there is no snapping point at all. En large, no draconian policy will trigger an out-roar, because the masses simply do not have it within them. We're too worn down, too distracted, too traumatized, and too used to it. What scares me most is how clear it is—by the public conduct of our corporations, our elected leaders, and our government accounts—that our rulers know this.

  • Delay Deny Deposed? Deny Defend Deposed?

  • Libs put that shit in vaccines, too. It's all connected!

  • Y'know some days I've thought the same thing, especially with the absurdity of the last few years. To the incident you described, I think that person may very well have been mentally disabled, or on drugs, or otherwise mentally "out of it". The human brain is incredibly complex and finicky, and that makes sense considering it's really intricate meat that is zapping itself with electricity.

    In my own life I've seen a fair number of people who seem fully tapped out. I believe this trend has been amplified by the overstimulating nature of our media landscape; the rise of short-form content; the normalization of outsourcing thinking to "AI" processes; the general stress and tension in the world...

  • Political Memes @lemmy.world

    The Hill to Die on

  • Political Memes @lemmy.world

    The Hill to Die on