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  • It is one of my deepest regrets that people are forced to hide who they are because of others beliefs. I appreciate you sharing your experience and I hope that before I die it is just a memory. I'm a cis het ally, and I won't be happy until everyone can be who they are.

  • I'm so glad you had an affirming experience during such a difficult time. Just to rain on your parade a tiny bit, medical settings are the one place where it is sometimes important to disclose your gender assigned at birth. Pharmacologically there are some difference between how humans respond to medications and your providers may prescribe differently to make sure you are going to be safe and healthy. Simply saying "When I was born they said I was a _____" and that's enough for them to make the safest possible decisions .

  • Houseplants @mander.xyz
    Idontevenknowanymore @mander.xyz

    My universal gnat advice: get a cape sundew, put it in a plastic tray of distilled/RO water on a sunny windowsill, finally enjoy seeing a plant covered in gnats.

    That's...pretty much it. They must be kept in non-porous pots and trays (glass or plastic), water TDS must be below 50 ppm and keep water in the tray constantly. They will even bloom with gorgeous little flowers. No fertilizer ever, just bugs.

    I can't emphasize enough a sunny spot. This window faces southwest and so it gets 8 hours of direct sun. This helps with growth and also makes the mucus shine which seems to attract the bugs.

  • I know that any task not done immediately will be permanently deleted from my attention span so I hyper focus on getting the entire task done in one go so I can forget about it. My annual review said I am one of the highest producers in the group.

  • Houseplants @mander.xyz
    Idontevenknowanymore @mander.xyz

    This random picture of my kitchen window is evoking the junglecore aesthetic I like.