I feel like you're pulling my leg. It's not that hard to understand. I've been dating this girl for two months, but we're not boyfriend and girlfriend. She sleeps with other people, and so do I. We go on dates and see each other. It's not formal, but it could be.
It's not that hard to understand, she and I are getting to know each other and we're fucking, but we're not dating.
Update: Trouble in Paradise
He's my best friend. My brother from another mother. I think he's in love with me. We've been through everything together: moving, debt, breakups, parties that ended in the hospital...
Having sex with him was weird at first, but over time I even got a taste for it. It's not that I'm attracted to men, but with him there's something different. Trust, chemistry, excitement... I don't know. It's not the same as with a woman, but it's not bad either. It's like a genre of its own.
The problem started when I met a girl.
We've been dating for two months; it's not official, but the connection is incredible. Sex with her is different—more intense, more mine—and I feel less and less like recording with my friend. He notices. And it hurts him. He says things like, "Are you going to sleep with her again? You forgot about our business so quickly."
Or worse:
"I don't understand how you can be with me and her at the same time. If you like her so much, why do you keep hooking up with me?"
And th
I discovered that I identify as demisexual and I think my friend is in love with me.
I've already accepted that I can have sex no matter who it is with. I think that to have sex I need to have a good bond with that girl or boy in this case before having sex.
It took me a while to realize, they sent me links to articles about different types of labels and I realized that I identify with demisexuality.
I am straight, gay for pay and demisexual.
I told my friend about this and he thought that when I said "I'm demisexual, I discovered I prefer having sex with people I'm in a relationship with" I meant in a romantic way. He said "Are you saying we're boyfriend and girlfriend?" very excitedly. I told him that I didn't mean that, I meant a relationship in general, getting to know the person. And I could tell he felt a little bad.
I feel like he has other feelings for me, he's 2 years younger than me, I was a little afraid of doing things with him for fear that he'd fall in love and I think he fell in love with me.
good to know and i discovered that i'm a straight gay for pay.
It's incredible, it's a whole new world, lol. Sooo I'm gay for pay too?
I don't think about this all the time, I just write about it here. I think about other things too. It's also true that this is almost my entire life. I live with him, I fuck with him, I eat with him, I talk with him, I work with him... it's hard not to think about it.
I'm straight and I have gay sex with my housemate for money, does that make me gay?
I already told you how it all started in my previous posts, but now it's different because I started having sex with him, before he only gave me blowjobs and now I started fucking his ass. I have to admit that it's a very nice thing to do, I've never fucked a butt before, I've always fucked pussies.
and I'm a little confused, because it started for money [not counting the jerk off we did in college watching porn] and I feel absolutely nothing for him other than friendship and brotherhood, he doesn't attract me at all but I enjoy fucking him, although it's not as satisfying as doing it with a woman.
and I realized that what I enjoy is having a man on a par dominated and in my power. that makes me horny and I don't know why.
I'm straight and I have gay sex with my housemate for money, does that make me gay?
I already told you how it all started in my previous posts, but now it's different because I started having sex with him, before he only gave me blowjobs and now I started fucking his ass. I have to admit that it's a very nice thing to do, I've never fucked a butt before, I've always fucked pussies.
and I'm a little confused, because it started for money [not counting the jerk off we did in college watching porn] and I feel absolutely nothing for him other than friendship and brotherhood, he doesn't attract me at all but I enjoy fucking him, although it's not as satisfying as doing it with a woman.
and I realized that what I enjoy is having a man on a par dominated and in my power. that makes me horny and I don't know why.
What? I think you lost the thread. 😅🤣
Thanks for your comment, I don't know what you're talking about, but let me tell you that I specifically know that I don't feel any attraction to my friend other than the affection of friendship. Maybe what I wanted to say was not clear, but I do it for the money, my problem is that I don't know if my friend does it 100% for the money like me and if one day we would get to the point where I fuck his ass, that is something that he genuinely likes because he is bi and he was the one who offered it to me, my problem is that if he likes it and if he falls in love with me that would change our relationship.
I understand what you're saying about the spectrum of sexuality, and yes, it makes sense. But I also think everyone knows where they stand, and in my case, I'm comfortable identifying as heterosexual. What I do with my friend is more of a practical and trusting thing than something that defines my orientation.
Yes, we've talked about how this might affect our relationship, and so far it doesn't seem to be an issue. He knows that for me it's more of a transactional thing, and I know that for him it's something he genuinely enjoys. We communicate well, and that's what's important.
Thanks for the encouragement! And haha, I don't know if the link can be posted here or if it's considered spam. 😉
I don't know if I had a specific question in mind when I posted this, I just wanted to know your opinions and vent my fears, I don't want my friendship with him to change, it's perfect, and I'm afraid that he might like it, because he genuinely likes gay sex and I'm afraid that he might fall in love with me and that would ruin our friendship just for a few dollars.
Thanks for answering
am i straight or bi?
Thank you for sharing your perspective and taking the time to explain it in such detail! I really appreciate your clarity and respectful approach to talking about this topic. I agree that labels can be helpful in understanding each other and finding community, but in the end the most important thing is to understand and accept yourself.
Your post has given me a lot to think about, and I especially appreciate that you have highlighted that only I can know for sure how I identify. I will take your advice and continue exploring and being honest with myself. Thank you for your well wishes too! 😊
Sex in Bromance
I wanted to share a personal experience I've had with my roommate and close friend, to see if anyone else has been through something similar or has advice on how to handle this situation.
It all started in 2023, when I entered college. My friend (let's call him "Alex") and I became roommates from freshman year. Alex is bisexual, although I didn't know that at the time. We got along really well from the start, and living together was pretty normal. Back then, I had a girlfriend, and Alex always gave us space when we needed privacy in the room.
My girlfriend and I broke up. After that, the dynamic between Alex and I changed. We spent a lot of time together in the room, and over time we became more comfortable with our intimacy. There were a couple of times when we caught each other masturbating, but instead of it being awkward, we talked about it and normalized it. By the end of 2023, we were already so comfortable that we could stand in our underwear in front of each other and even ch
Bromance Unfiltered: Navigating Friendship, Intimacy, and Boundaries?
Hi, community. I wanted to share a personal experience I've had with my roommate and close friend, to see if anyone else has been through something similar or has advice on how to handle this situation.
It all started in 2023, when I entered college. My friend (let's call him "Alex") and I became roommates from freshman year. Alex is bisexual, although I didn't know that at the time. We got along really well from the start, and living together was pretty normal. Back then, I had a girlfriend, and Alex always gave us space when we needed privacy in the room.
My girlfriend and I broke up. After that, the dynamic between Alex and I changed. We spent a lot of time together in the room, and over time we became more comfortable with our intimacy. There were a couple of times when we caught each other masturbating, but instead of it being awkward, we talked about it and normalized it. By the end of 2023, we were already so comfortable that we could stand in our underwear in front of each ot