She wouldn't care, most likely, you know who will care though? Women and trans women, some of which have already heard similar things hurled at them as insults.

Don't try to use transphobia "for good" it won't work and only harm the people around you.

I really hope iced.rs gets better on accessibility, because i really enjoyed trying it :)

Very nice read, short and concise too :)

Saved your comment, hopefully won't take too long before i find time to read that book :)

I really don't like this "no true scotsman" flavored meme, the profit incentive destroys valuable research by limiting resources to replications of past experiments (as soon as something is profitable, you must not disprove it for a fear of retaliation from companies promoting said something), this is systemic, not an individual level problem, get rid of "bad scientists" and more will be propped up.

I do like the sentiment of the meme though, more more replication is needed.

Would you recommend the book?

Not really, generators have weird truthiness, i don't remember if they evaluate to true or false, but they cannot be checked for emptiness so they default to either always true or always false.

for a sec i thought i was in a "data is a warcrime" community

What in the fuck 🤮

To emulate* on my desktop 😌

It's satire probably, guessing by the tag "china bad"

Accidental good username

Okay other commenters have said this already, but it still needs to be said, your husband is an immature asshole.

The dynamic between you two sounds like this, you try to appease him, and if he doesn't think you're doing enough he'll punish you, like he is an authority figure and not your husband.

First of all you deserve better, you sound like you need more care from a relationship and that's perfectly fine, my partner also deals with migraines/back-pains/nausea, and requires special care sometimes for it, and i do my best to make her feel cared for, as i should, would your husband do the same?

Secondly, and I'm coming back to it again, you said he's punishing you and lied to your mom, that's toxic af i don't even know what to say, he could've made you something to eat himself, perhaps not something complicated, I'm not a good cook myself, but there isn't really a lack of easy meals to make but instead he is playing stupid man child games trying to dictate punishment on his spouse???

Lastly, in another comment you said he won't ever admit he is wrong, he is over 30, if he can't admit he is ever wrong now, he won't learn how in the future, i don't even see the point in asking "do you want to build a life with him?", he sounds unbearable.

Also him refusing to go to therapy is wild, I'm trying to go through therapy even when i have trouble trusting the psychologist and the psychiatrist, and i just do my best to make sure i understand every step of the way.

You deserve better, you can do better than him, and honestly sounds like you'd be better without him.

Sorry if i sounded too harsh, I'm used to dealing and hearing about shit men, you take care of yourself, peace.

Very silly.

The 3rd option is still playing with liberal electoralism which got you here in the first place. you could get results faster with mutual aid and strong unions, this is how you guys got worker rights before, in the times of FDR.

A better presence in social media is a good direction though, especially in federated communities that don't need to fear corporate censorship.

I know what you mean, i recently started studying in uni as i couldn't find a job since i was fired, I'm lucky i had a chance to save money though, and a good scholarship, incredibly lucky.

I can't tell you what to do in order to find a job, but i got my first actual good job through a friend recommending me to the boss, maybe you can do something similar, i wouldn't be able to know, though.

Keep your head up high, I'm sure someone here will have good advice, you're worth your the effort.

Changing environments can do wonders, so maybe plan to find somewhere more positive in the long term, whatever fits your situation.

For the short term, find smaller communities interested in the same things that you are, try and make friends online, find your own little friendly circle, a positive place to escape to can be a big change.

And you do have worth, you are lovable, and you deserve some goddamn peace of mind, it won't come without a bit of effort, but it will be very worth it.

You have good luck out there, friend, it's a harsh world, we all deserve better.

ps. English is my 2nd language, so my tone might be cold, no offense meant.

Well it's been a while, and she found better treatment, she was prescribed anti depressants that also help with chronic pains, she's been feeling way happier for it, and I'm happier for her :)

Refreshing how optimized rust code is simple, coming from embedded in C, this is just * chef's kiss *

i would call being resistant to misinformation, being a force against misinformation, is that enough to warrant calling it a force for truth?

They do it for free, too, what more you can ask for? Well you can unreasonably ask them, these people, humans, fallible biological machines, to "be" correct 100% of the time, even when moderators may not be available, even when people didn't yet report misinfo, something you'd never ask anyone else to do or be.

Oh wait you did ask that, so I think there's a very good reason to believe you don't really care for what you preach.