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MaybeALittleBitWeird @ Biapathy @lemmynsfw.com

32NB Any/They. US East.

Bi, kinky(Sub-leaning Switch), goofy and sassy, and a little queer. I'm just here to look at naked people being sexy and have fun.

Happy to chat with interesting and respectful people. Send me a message on Matrix.

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  • I like some aspects of it, for sure, but I do think there are some who tread too far into misogynistic territory

    I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one who thinks this. To be honest, I don't consider myself a sissy personal in large part because of how toxicly misogynistic the community at large is. I try really hard to keep my feminism hat off to make sure the sisyt spaces I'm a part of are still safe for those that may not be as comfortable with their queer identity yet. It's tough sometimes though and it was a big reason why I chose to never participate in the reddit community.

    As for the how: I think it coalesced around a few different things over the years. My love for anal led to a love for chastity in the pursuit of the elusive prostate orgasm. I've always loved power dynamics in sex and being a sub suits me, generally. I had the classic "girlfriend left a pair of panties here, guess I need to try them on... why am I hard?" experience that was a catalyst, though it took me a long time to accept that.

    I've never been big on chastity on my own, but I would certainly do it with the right keyholder. I haven't found that person though. I had actually forgotten but you reminded me that I had a similar experience with panties! I've always had an "I'll try anything once" kind of personality. I had never really thought about dressing feminine, or really gender at all, most of my life but my partner was out of town one weekend and I had the idea to see how I liked wearing her panties. She's got waaaaaat bigger hips than me but my ass still looked so good! It started me down the path of trying more feminine things though and it was less than a year before I was out for a walk in a park in full femme 😅

    As for the queer aspect: I've had those thoughts since I was a teen. Part of the reason I had so much trouble coming to terms with it is that I'm not really romantically interested in men. So for a long time I was like "ah, I don't wanna date a dude, that means I'm straight". Luckily I eventually realized that I can want to have sex with dudes (and anyone else 👀) without dating them and now I'm a proud pansexul.

    This was always the hardest thing to get over for me. I always described it as, if I saw a man walking down the street I will almost never look at them and find them attractive, but if that same person started flirting with me or had their cock out in front of me it would be an entirely different story. I actually had to confront a lot of internalized homophobia to eventually come to terms with my bi-side. It took a lot of effort, but I'm glad I put that effort in.

    Thank you for sharing your experiences KK ☺️💜