Can't find the new community space for online D/s, BDSM, kink

Hi everyone, I've been in the D/s and kink lifestyles for over 25 years now, both online and f2f. I've lived through Yahoo Messenger, IRC, CollarMe, CollarSpace, the birth of Fetlife, Kik, Reddit, etc etc etc.

I'm trying to get back into online D/s, and Reddit seems to be an absolute bonfire, so I thought I'd check out Lemmy. The community here looks lovely, but the specific BDSMPersonals community looks like it hasn't been active for 6+ months.

Does anyone have any suggestions of where people gather for these purposes these days?