If you really want to jump through hoops, do it in VRchat. Their biggest worlds are movie worlds. I've spent a 1000 hours in that game just watching movies for free with friends.
I saw forums when I was too young to understand it, and when I did get access to the Internet social media was in full swing. I feel like a lot of people have been in my position and now cry for what they didn't know they lost.
I started on VRchat in 2020 and just before most of the kids made it there.
Public worlds used to be about 25% unsupervised kids and teens %50 adults and the other 25% were computer mutes. On Friday's and other popular times it was 90% adults.
Today it's 90% kids and teens in public lobbies and you'll have to join the adults in private worlds. You'll have to find these fellow adults everywhere but public VRchat worlds, mostly through discord servers.
ChilloutVR is the closest thing to what VRchat once was, but you'll be sorely disappointed with it if you compare the two games together since they're so different.
I've mostly 100% smut games. Mostly because their simple puzzles.