I wasn't using a router, thank you!!! YunoHost wasn't responding and neither were either domain, so I guess I'll reinstall YunoHost and this time, hook everything up via a router
I didn't see install with Yunohost on there, so i went to yunohost's sites, it looks like the domain name is supposedly linked to lemmy but i can't access it?
I'd say just keep being there for him, give him something that might distract him from the way he's feeling, and make sure to set a boundary. don't be there so much that you start to feel the negative vibes, but be there enough to show you care without it affecting you. hopefully, your vibe rubs off on him and he feels better.
The site I bought the domain at :3