also u/triflingtoad@sh.itjust.works, u/triflingtoad@lemmy.world and @QuinnyCoded@toad.social on mastodon. New account for non-deadname email.
Cats name is dodo, ask for pics anytime :)
I mainly use Voyager so I can't see profile pictures, display names, or bios.

oh I wrote a whole response to this but my instance was down so it wouldn't send and I forgot about it
I heard the term social lubricant in tharipy and had never heard of that phenomenon having an actual word for it before and googled it, thought it was interesting so I posted to Lemmy.
also I didn't think about it in the moment but that wikipedia article is indeed absolutely shit. I guess nobody with a special interest in the social lubrication field has come along to improve it like other pages 🤷♀️
Also, for the LLM part here's my cat to prove I exist
diabolically radical