I agree. He's a terrible person, I don't talk to him anymore for that reason but in fifth grade, he was my best friend. He is a spoiled kid, I know that, with enabler parents.
Wow... it takes a lot of courage to speak up about this. Really sorry this happened. That sounds like actual grooming, an older person trying to trick you into trust and use it against you for their own purposes. And the adults are in the wrong here very much, even if the dad reacted out of anger "with love". From your posts, the aunt sounds like a fucking asshole. I'm sorry :(
I've never done it before but I have done sexual things but only with other AFAB people so this is a bit tricky for me... I'd say like the other commenter, maybe your hormones found them to be a "match" and "picked" that person to be the one you get hot and bothered for.
If you do have sex, like everyone else has been saying, WEAR PROTECTION AND TAKE BIRTH CONTROL.
Make sure this person isn't a loser either, make sure she stays and doesn't ghost you after one night or leave you with the baby if you end up getting pregnant.
Not a thing as far as I'm aware. Sounds like a creepo who wants "naughty nudes" from a teen girl but is disguising it as something else because she thought you'd do it that way and also potentially to feel better about herself for doing it so she doesn't feel guilty receiving it from a minor, but yeah, she was probably just horny.
Thanks!