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Flickerby

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  • Trans friend scared of starting hormones

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  • Yeah of course. I was just wondering if there was anything I could do to make that process easier I guess. I'm just trying to be a good friend.

  • Trans friend scared of starting hormones

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  • She's not FULLY socially transitioned. Like, with her friends she's herself, but with her family and in public, she's, how did she put it...."Just a little fae"? She still goes by her deadname with family and in public

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  • She WANTS to though. Like, a lot. She makes those "and this is what I would do with my boobs...IF I HAD THEM" jokes and aw I feel bad. My bio dad now mom was SUCH a fucking asshole before she transitioned and now she's just a different person. I mean my friend's not an asshole but I want her to come into herself like my mom did if that makes sense.

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  • Oh no :/ Yeah I already talked to her about that, I'm not sure what sub it was but I went and read one of their guides on it. She's open to it like I said, it's the social stuff that is stopping her. And trump cutting supplies when she's on them, which would be horrible, I understand that. My mom is trans too, so it's an issue close to my heart, and I'd really like to help somehow. Though I know it's ultimately just up to whenever she feels comfortable.

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  • Thank you so much! This helps actually. Yeah she's absolutely terrified of all the stuff trump is doing, shit I forgot to mention that. Like she's worried that if she starts it, then Trump does something to cut off it off when she's in the middle of it, it's gonna be even worse for her

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  • Yeah that's what I've been telling her too. She's 23 or so now, so she definitely knows what she wants. She's just really terrified of her hurting her dad. Not because he won't accept her or anything (she's been socially living as a woman for a long while now, just hasn't ever had the 'dad I'm trans' convo') but because she's afraid the community will lash out against her family. Which I don't think they will, but I have super anxiety too, so I understand the paranoia. I just don't want her to miss out on what could be some great years for her because of fear, because I did the same (in an entirely unrelated fashion though)

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    Trans friend scared of starting hormones

  • Anon finds his people

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  • His problem started at the pick up artists videos. Women are just people. Just talk to them like people. So long as you have good hygiene and you can carry a conversation you're 90% above most other men. All of these problems start with these stupid people treating each gender like they're some entirely different species born on a different planet. People are just people.

  • Anyone want to co op split fiction for a couple hours with a slightly drunk partner?

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  • The funny part is I have shitty ass Comcast lol. Wish I had fiber in my area. Comcast is the only option :'(

  • Every decision led him to this point

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  • Thought this was that old video of the guy who splits his wedding pants and his dong just flops out in front of everyone. To be fair it was a fairly impressive dong so nothing to be embarrassed about it.

  • every arrow I find ...

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  • I don't open my notifications unless I'm prepared. Which usually means like a week after which works for me quite well.

  • Anyone want to co op split fiction for a couple hours with a slightly drunk partner?

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  • Same. I'm bored and looking for friends to chat. I dunno how I'd go setting that up though. I was just planning on the single bus with SF lol

    I guess I can just make one lol https://discord.gg/Y9vTdUrN

  • Anyone want to co op split fiction for a couple hours with a slightly drunk partner?

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  • Found this one online

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  • Woooooah what? Is that true? I knew about the horrible misogyny shit he said but that is a VERY specific phrase to use related to genocide and ethnic cleansing. Holy shit I feel really uncomfortable all of a sudden.

  • Anyone want to co op split fiction for a couple hours with a slightly drunk partner?

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  • Would've taken me hours on wifi but I'm hard wired now so it's just 10 mins or so. It's a really fun game! Super unique. Totally worth the download. Sorry for your slow internet </3

  • Good point

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  • Good lord I don't want to be invited to your dinner parties

  • Only 3 People Mentioned in "We Didn't Start the Fire" Are Still Alive

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  • Damn it, every time I think I have an original thought...

  • Trump sides with Russia on claims that Ukraine targeted Putin residence

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  • Wow guys, seriously, let's be civil here, attacking the aggressor leader during a war? That's just not polite, clearly.

  • Games @lemmy.world
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    Anyone want to co op split fiction for a couple hours with a slightly drunk partner?

  • Eating

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  • Sex is supposed to be a fun bonding experience. I see no problem. If you can't have dumb fun with your naked bestie who can you have fun with

  • Add a third, larger bar for "knowing the right people" skills

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  • You interviewed well, but we're looking for someone with a more "related to a current employee" skill set.

  • Connect for Lemmy App @lemmy.ca
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    Am I the only getting a lotta jank the last few days after the update?

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world
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    People who have moved away from your home town/area, what do you miss most?

  • Technology @beehaw.org
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    TV has a burn-in image that has moved over time

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world
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    What's that one story you always wanted to share with people but never had the opportunity?

  • Reprieve @lemmy.zip
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    Happy Halloween!

  • Reprieve @lemmy.zip
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    Favorite pieces of media (Games, movies, music etc) and reason

  • Reprieve @lemmy.zip
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    Red signs you've noticed in partners that made you want to slap your past self?

  • LGBTQ+ @beehaw.org
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    Something more lighthearted

  • Reprieve @lemmy.zip
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    Welcome back and in light of recent news

  • Connect for Lemmy App @lemmy.ca
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    Is there currently a way to pin posts in a community?

  • Reprieve @lemmy.zip
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    Let's get to know each other a little bit

  • Reprieve @lemmy.zip
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    100 subscribers in just over 12 hours!

  • Reprieve @lemmy.zip
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    Kicking off

  • New Communities @lemmy.world
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    Reprieve, a com for men to take a break from the world

  • Reprieve @lemmy.zip
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    Welcome!

  • Connect for Lemmy App @lemmy.ca
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    is it possible to create a community through this app alone?